After I had lost my last baby (at 4 months), My doctor advised that I wait a year before trying to concieve. I waited longer than that because I needed to grieve for my baby, accept my loss and move forward in my life.
I know that it has been over a year for you since your loss and you said you have been trying since August of last year.First and foremost, think about why you want to concieve
. If it purely because you want to a fullfillment for your feelings of sadness over your loss, you have a lot of thinking to do.Both you and your husband should want to TTC
, if he isn't ready, then he may have some issues that need to been worked out before attempting to try again. You mentioned he said he wants to wait a little longer...maybe you should listen to his feelings about this.
If you are crying over someone else getting pregnant, that is understandable but your spouse knows you better than anyone except yourself and I think you need to explore your feelings about your loss of your baby before moving forward and conceiving again.
No one is telling you to wait forever.
I was TTC for ten years before I got pregnant and lost my baby. I was 35 years when I finally had Michael (my premature baby) and I am taking things slow before I attempt to try again.
I am 38 years old and I still want another baby but only time will tell. I wish you all the best.