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When you and your SO/DH do not agree....

post #1 of 12
9/28/04 at 5:50pm
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on parenting in a certain situation how do you work it out?
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post #2 of 12
9/28/04 at 6:01pm
We really need to work on this.
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post #3 of 12
9/28/04 at 6:09pm
we don't normally disagree on much. we just discuss whatever it is and then continue.
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post #4 of 12
9/29/04 at 12:11am
I am with Stephanie on this one. We hardly ever see eye to eye on anything. Makes it hard on Alisha to learn from us. on us.
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post #5 of 12
9/29/04 at 12:17am
I think me and Jerm agree on most anything, but if not we discuss it.
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post #6 of 12
9/29/04 at 8:15am
Hmm... he usually ends up getting his way which irritates me sometimes. He is much more strict and in my mind "meaner" than I am. His punishments sometimes feel like they are done with the purpose of being mean with no lesson intended.
It is something we need to work on.
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post #7 of 12
9/29/04 at 8:24am
Whomever is there and handles the situation first .. it sticks. Then if the other does not agree we talk about it when the children are not in the room

Doesn't always work out all great ... but usually.
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post #8 of 12
9/29/04 at 10:46am
We agree on most things. Like Roxanna, whoever is there at the time the situation happens is the one to handle it. If something happens while I'm gone, he tells me about it later, and vice versa. If we have a problem with the way the other one has handled something, then we talk about it. But most of the time, we agree.
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post #9 of 12
9/29/04 at 12:19pm
So far I don't think there has been to many issues to talk about.
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post #10 of 12
9/29/04 at 9:06pm
We need to work on this also. DH is really bad about displining after me, like if I tell Brandon anything, DH is automatically repeating it behind me. It aggravates me and I tell him Brandon is never going to listen to me if he keeps doing it.
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post #11 of 12
10/14/04 at 10:46am
Usually we agree on everything, but if we don't we discuss it in private.
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post #12 of 12
10/14/04 at 11:51am
We are like Roxanna also. There is not much we disagree on. We do have different parenting styles. But since I am with the kids the majority of the time it is mostly left up to me. Big things we discuss though. Like Gavin keeps getting in trouble in Karate so Court and I talked about it and what to do.
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