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I spoke too soon--MIL is starting again....

post #1 of 19
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You sure can tell when the holidays are approaching......
MIL starts her sh!t around this time every flippin year. So far, she has been emailing this week saying that she was so sad because she at least expected a phone call. We responded and asked her what she was talking about and she replied that she wouldh ave thought that her "youngest son would have at least called for her birthday". Ok, theres a couple things wrong with this. First, her birthday was in August. It is 2 days after my dads so we always make sure we (or at least Jason ) send her a card the same time we send his. And I know that Jason did call her from work on her bday. I asked him about it that night and he told me that he had already done it (since he knew that I would not be heartbroken not having to talk to her ).
Second, she does this crap every year before Thanksgiving. She LOOKS for things to b!tch about. Next, she will complain that we are not coming up there for Thanksgiving. That one is not a major, major deal though. It is just her workingu p to Christmas. We have told her that we spend Christmas at HOME because it is too hard to take everything somewhere else for the girls. She will go off the deep end when we have to remind her of this.
And, she seems to always take a stressful situation we are in (the company buyout) and make it even worse. That was what prompted all of this. Jason emailed her the article and her responses were, Wahhhh, you did not call me in August. Oh, but good luck getting another job. Where do you think you will live?

That woman!!! I KNEW there was a reason I did not remove my quote after the last pleasant visit.
post #2 of 19
She is a "me" person. It always has to be about her. I am sorry Jen.
post #3 of 19
Sorry she is being difficult. I am very lucky I haven't had to deal with my MIL in almost a year
post #4 of 19
What an idiot! It is laughable that she whines about her bday 3mo later though! That's pathetic.
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post #6 of 19
What a whiney ! At least you remembered her birthday.

to you.
post #7 of 19
we live in the same freaking town and STILL have the christmas fight....last year she was mad because we went to dinner at 1:30 at my parents...her dinner wasn't until 5 or 6 but she got mad that adam didn't eat enough
post #8 of 19
Good God... Try and blow it off, I wouldn't even read the emails.
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post #11 of 19
Why am I not shocked?!?
post #12 of 19
Send her an email now telling her what your plans for Thanksgiving and xmas are.

Also add that you will not be sending her a xmas card or calling her on xmas as she will not remember getting them, just the way she forgot the birthday card and the phone call she got for her birthday.

Then ignore all emails and phone calls from now on.
post #13 of 19
What a loser... It sure takes all the magic out of Christmas!
post #14 of 19
What a deranged MIL!
post #15 of 19
Quote:
Originally posted by Lady Knight
Send her an email now telling her what your plans for Thanksgiving and xmas are.

Also add that you will not be sending her a xmas card or calling her on xmas as she will not remember getting them, just the way she forgot the birthday card and the phone call she got for her birthday.

Then ignore all emails and phone calls from now on.
I second everything that Maree says!!! Maree you are brilliant! Jen Take her advise, dont get soft... Do I need to remind you of the girls presents?
post #16 of 19
Got talk about me talk bout I talk about number 1 oh me oh my.
Sorry she is a pain in the Butt. Get a clue!
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post #18 of 19
I agree with Krist- she's pathetic. Why bring up the past- her bday 3mo ago for crying out loud.
post #19 of 19
If she really had been upset, she would have said something sooner. Since she didn't, you know she is just looking for attention and crying "poor me"!

Blow it off. She isn't worth it.
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