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post #1 of 8
11/16/04 at 5:27pm
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What if you had/have a sister in law that you thought would be great to have as a sister because they would be the sister you never had but then she does not want to have anything to do with you or your family and she does not think your brother who she is married to needs to stay in touch with you or any real contact with the family and neices and nephews you hardly get to see. What would you do?
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post #2 of 8
11/16/04 at 5:41pm
I would hopefully be able to get through to my brother before they got married. (this actucally happened last year with one of my brothers - they were engaged at the time and he finally saw the light and realized what a psyco she really was!)
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post #3 of 8
11/16/04 at 6:11pm
I don't know because I can't stand my SIL. Total loser, welfare nightmare....
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post #4 of 8
11/16/04 at 7:17pm
That would be hard. I would try to talk to my brother about the situation and hopefully he would decide to stay apart of the family and not cut us out of his or his children's lives. But if that's what he chose to do, there'd be nothing I could do about it except be sad for my brother and my nieces and nephews. I would do a lot of praying that the situation would eventually change so that we could be one happy family again. And I'm sure me and my SIL would have several "discussions" about what she was doing.
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post #5 of 8
11/16/04 at 7:28pm
I always wanted my brother to marry so I could have a sister, because my ex-stepmom never wanted my half sister to have anythign to do with us. So, I felt like I missed out on having a sister. But then I moved away so I'm never around them. The only time I hear anything from my brother is when they're mooching off of someone.
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post #6 of 8
11/16/04 at 10:47pm
I have a sil that I barely know and one I greatly dislike. I think I would if the one I know suddenly wanted to be sisters. I would also want to know what she was up to and what she wanted. I already have a sister so this is not an issue for me. to those in this situation.
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post #7 of 8
11/16/04 at 10:58pm
I hate my sil, so I have nothing to say on this

oh, and my real sisters aren't that much better either
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post #8 of 8
11/17/04 at 1:45am
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All I can say is I am sorry that we have to deal with such things in life. Hugs to you all
I hope this never happens when my brother decides to marry.
I do have a neighbor that has a dil like this and she is a piece of work for the whole family and anyone around her.
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