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post #1 of 17
5/3/05 at 10:08pm
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I so wish the inlaws never came back. Looking back it wasn;t too bad with them gone. Now Ed has her inquiring for him. So before I had to worry about Ed going off on me when I picked Sam up everyday. Now with him alls I had to do was call 911 and off to jail he would go. What do I do about MIL? She came out today when I picked up the kids. Wanted to know where the payloader was. I told her it was at a junk yard dead.

It is they guy that was going to buy it said the motor and the sterring linkage were seized. So I will get 100.00 for it. I was selling it bc Ed told me a while back it was mine to with what I want. When asked him what I would do with it he said sell it for all he cared. Now he owes me 3000.00 for daycare expenses that he is court ordered to pay me, monies i have already paid out bc I have no choice. When we get into court in a month I am gonna get 25.oo a month on that. So you are damn right I tried to sell the stupid thing. No I didn;t tell her all of that. I am going to call the law guardian and see what needs to be done about getting the kids picked up and droped off by either a neutral party or at the police station bc I can;t deal with that family!!!
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post #2 of 17
5/3/05 at 10:16pm
sorry Becky! and here i thought things would be good again
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post #3 of 17
5/3/05 at 10:18pm
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Me too but I was wrong.
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post #4 of 17
5/3/05 at 10:30pm
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post #5 of 17
5/4/05 at 12:52am
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post #6 of 17
5/4/05 at 9:04am
Not her business. I would fully outright tell her it is not her business!
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post #7 of 17
5/4/05 at 9:32am
Sorry Becky. I think I would have told her to ask her son.

to the EX MIL and know what, don't let your gaurd down with her any longer. Don't get sucked in.
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post #8 of 17
5/4/05 at 9:32am
What is that saying fool me once?
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post #9 of 17
5/4/05 at 9:38am
Im sorry.
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post #10 of 17
5/4/05 at 9:42am
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Yep. THis is what I am goping to reply to any questions I get from here on out. :

I am doing what I have to do to take care of my kids. Ask your son if he is paying me the court ordered daycare expenses. Expenses that I have to pay out every week weather he pays his court ordered amount or not. That bill is over 500/month do the math.

Then I will walk away. If I have to I will go for more. I can get traveling expenses reimbursed bc I do all the transportation. I can get it changed to pick up and drop off at the PD and that would be alot easier on me. But it would be harder on the kids. So it it up to them. He has gotten away with so much and done so much to me. What have I done? Surenendered a 400/month vehicle that he refused to fix when he could have done it for free sine the parts were lifetime warrenty. I tried to sell the loader, he told me months ago it was mine to do with what I wanted. Sell for all he cared. I tried to. But guess what? The motor and the drive linkage (or whatever) were seized. Piece of junk.

He has the campers (2) snowmobile, trailer, wheelers, and a vehicle with no loan on it. He does not have to pay a power bill, weekly groceries, food, phone (well his cell but that is not a necessity, he only has to worry about himself. He has his parents and family to turn to. I don;t.
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post #11 of 17
5/4/05 at 10:36am
Becky, I have always thought that women got the bad end of the deal in every divorce (okay, I am not talking about celebrities here, just average people like us), and that men get off too easily, and in your case, it's very true. I would definitely tell the ex MIL that if she questions you again. I am so sorry you are dealing with all of this.
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post #12 of 17
5/4/05 at 10:41am
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It was expected though. I can take it. Yes I get stresssed. Butultimatly I am so much happier. And yes the mom's get the hard end of it. For whateer reason the men think they did nothing wrong. That we deserve to suffer no matter who caused what.
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post #13 of 17
5/4/05 at 10:53am
Also, just imagine what would happen if you refused to pay for day care or if you refused to provide for your children. First of all, day care wouldn't keep them if YOU didn't pay, since that responsibility is ultimately yours. And if you were not providing for them, Children and Family Services would be on your butt so fast and they could be taken from you and you would be called a bad mother. But, when men don't step up and take responsibility after a divorce, it's just like you said, they expect sympathy because somehow in their minds they think they have been done wrong and the way to get revenge is to not do right by their kids. Which, by the way, is just sickening--the kids should come first no matter what. And the really sick thing is that some people will give them sympathy and won't tell them how sorry they are for not doing whatever it takes to fulfill their obligations to THEIR KIDS. I have a close friend who has been in a similar situation to yours, and it always angered me to see her ex buying new cars or going on trips and then paying his support late or not sending their son birthday or Christmas gifts.
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post #14 of 17
5/4/05 at 10:59am
What a pain! I'm sorry you have to deal with them.
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post #15 of 17
5/4/05 at 11:19am
Becky I agree with you. You do not need all this rubbage. Remind them you have to do what you need to to survive for you and the kids. Then just walk away. Dang people.
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post #16 of 17
5/4/05 at 11:23am
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Oh but they are supposed to be disney dad's as my attorney had said
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post #17 of 17
5/4/05 at 1:09pm
NOT GOOD!
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