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post #1 of 12
5/9/05 at 11:53am
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Pretty ticked. I was suppose to have Rachel this am and afternoon but SIL let her go to the neighbors that use to watch her.

I dont know what she was thinking? She said she had a brain fart and forgot that she told me to watch her. So if she doesn't like the way Nancy watches the kids then why is she sending her there? Why didn't she just call me up and ask hey Jan did I ask you about Monday?

She said that Rachel (7YO neice) and Izzy (4 YO neighbor) were playing yesterday so she just asked Nancy to watch her.



Does she not want me watching her kids anymore? I do what she tells me when watching them. MIL made a comment that SIL think my kids are uncontrolable. She is blind to the way her kids are? She is really living in a lala land if that is the case.
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post #2 of 12
5/9/05 at 11:57am
Sorry she did that, Jan. I'd be upset about it too.
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post #3 of 12
5/9/05 at 12:00pm
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I mean the money is like $10 but I was on the couch waiting for her. Just hurts my feelings and I keep asking her what is wrong
She wont talk to me
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post #4 of 12
5/9/05 at 12:03pm
Hell don't watch her bratty kid anymore. Gives you more time to play here!
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post #5 of 12
5/9/05 at 12:09pm
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post #6 of 12
5/9/05 at 12:29pm
Ugh ... sounds so similar to the situation I was in. I have to tell you, I feel liberated since I told the neighbor to stuff her money and find somebody else to watch her disrespectful child!

Maybe you should do the same ... you really don't need that added stress, do you?
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post #7 of 12
5/9/05 at 12:32pm
the ladies have said it great! she is taking advantage of you!!

you don't need the stress!
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post #8 of 12
5/9/05 at 12:36pm
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post #9 of 12
5/9/05 at 12:38pm
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You all are right. I should tell her to shove it. Her kids are the disrespecting ones.

Karen is just chicken sh!t to tell anyone anything and if she has a problem with me fine let it be that way. Dont call me the last second to watch your kids when she cant do it.

Now I just need courage.
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post #10 of 12
5/9/05 at 12:42pm
I would just flat out ask her again. Is there a problem? Cos you are treating me like there is. Do you want me to watch your children? If not, there are better things I could be doing!

to her for hurting your feeling!
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post #11 of 12
5/9/05 at 1:17pm
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post #12 of 12
5/10/05 at 12:56am
I bet it hurt your feelings, you love your Rachel and you worry. I am so sorry SIL was so air headed about this all.
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