Okay give me advise!!!!

I am two seconds away from telling my own Father to take a hike!

Remember I told you about my Grandpa and how he was having surgery. He had two different surgerys. One on that Thursday and one on that Friday. How did I find out? At my cousins shower. I heard he was okay.

When I talked to my father the week before the first communication from him was through e-mail. this is what it said... Now I keep all my e-mails since the end of march I just have not deleted them. And to top it all off I have Caller ID The man did not contact me... BUSTED! So after defending him as to why he is lying he tells me that OPA is having this surgery on Thursday and that he will take him up there on Thursday and he will let me know how it goes.

I heard nothing on thursday nothing on Friday and nothing till I got to my Cousins shower on Saturday late morning that they knew that he was okay. Then I find out he has two surgerys. Can you see I am getting ticked? My Aunt and my ex-Aunt and everyone else there is giving me this impression of my father that is he in life for himself to make himself look good. This I know.

Then I get this He is the one that told me that he would call me. I had no idea that OPA would even be home this early from surgery. I replied back to him Wait back up a bit to thursday and 1st surgery day. My Uncle was in town and my dad was to call his own brother to let him know everything was fine. He didn't call him till 8:30 at night. My Aunt said my Uncle was in tears waiting for some contact.

Okay back to current day and the e-mail I get from him today. what I say to this is blah blah blah blah Dad when ever he want to look good I get some sort of guilt trip. This whole thing just sucks. You know My dad is the one that moved them up there. Okay let's define this more for my friends. "Dad says Oma and Opa need to move. He finds a place 2 1/2 hours form him." Jan blah blah blah I am so busy can you pack them? So I took an all spring and summer and I did this every weekend. Now that they are so far away I get this. And you know if they are to move again Me Myself and I are the ones that will have to move them.

Ohhh I just want to frigging go off on him. And the picture thing from my father. I use to give him picture all the time. Every month of Brittany and I asked him once about one of the picture of HIS only grand child. and you know what? The picture was in a piano bench inter changed with other things. THe only pic every that was displayed in there house was of my step monster neice that was like 4 at the time is now 18. THis was the only picture. THey have no respect and do not care about my kids.

Ohhh if you read this far man I apperciate it I hope this is just a way of me getting this off of my chest because this father is really ticking me off! Royally!

Did you see the part that he doesn't even know his mom's birthday and needs to check with me?


Like I said blah blah blah blah his life is so terrible. Fishing only 3 times I say BS to that! I know he goes before and after work every day.

He is my father so how much respect should he get?

Should I always bite my tongue?

Me either... I once told him to have a nice life and GOD did I hear it. Why can't they just leave me be who I want to be.

Be proud of your boy. Ya know. THere is never anything to be proud f me for so lets not talk about her. So why the H-E- double toothpicks does he need to hear from me. To brag about my brother!

I just read the e-mail again. Ohhh I wish I could just let him have it. How much have I itch about him and his lazy grandparentness in the past and for him to do this

I don't even know what to say to him.

I wish I could just him and let him be on his way.

This is what I should reply with...

Father, I have never asked you to be a go between for my grandparents and I. There is no hard feeling between us. Just when you tell me that you will call me and let me know that all is fine I don't want to have to wait three days. You could have called collect I would not have cared. I knew nothing and learned from your ex-sil that he was okay.

If you would not have moved my grandparents to somewhere that far away things would not be the way they are. You moved them somewhere that they have nobody and woo is you if you have to take time out to go help them. If Kathy had clothes for me she would have sent them to my house. I talked to her today and she said nothing of the sort. She did say that Al is over the no call that broke his heart, but you seem to be mad at him for something? I think you ought to grow up and not look at earth as that you have life so bad.

THe kids... All of a sudden you are interested in my kids. THere is a first. You want pictures this is a first. I stopped giving you pictures because you didn't know where the ones I gave you were. And all you want is wallets of the kids? well at least it is something.

Stop being so cheap and pick up the phone and call and talk to me. The real me if you know who that is. Everytime you call you ask me if I heard from your perfect son Bill. Or what good he has done. THe only thing you have ever praised me for in my life is the weight I lost 2 years ago. Well now there is nothing to be proud of me for because my a$$ is fatter than it was before.

And I know if you have any spare time you wll not be spending it with me you will spend it with the fish. Or have me come over to fish so we can talk about Bill.

Your daughter

Yeah no balls to send it!