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Need your opinion on this..do you think it was fair?

post #1 of 11
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Gavin is attending a summer program run through a daycare center. It is located in a huge building where the main focus is gymnastics and the daycare is something extra. They do a ton of fun things plus there are a lot of kids there. Once a week they are supposed to go to the pool. This week it was cancelled. Wednesdays a person from the library comes and reads to the kids and they do an activity. I guess 7 or so of the kids (out of like 30) were really awful and as punishment they cancelled the pool for this week.

When one of the workers told me I asked her if Gavin had done anything and she said he had not that he was and is very well behaved ( ). I talked to my SIL and her 3 kids attend also and she said she had asked the same thing. She told me it was 7 kids that are always acting up.

Now as I have never had a child in daycare I do not know if I am over reacting or not. But I have to ask if you think it was really fair to punish everyone?

Personally I do not feel it works real well to punish the entire group because a few have misbehaved. Especially when the kids are so young. They have kids that are 3 years old there as well. When I told Gavin he was not going to the pool he was pretty disappointed about it and did not understand why as he had done nothing wrong.
post #2 of 11
I don't think that was fair at all. And, Kyler was in daycare most of his life.

The last daycare we were at did something similar. If some of the kids weren't behaving, they would take away show and tell for everyone. Kyler was so upset. They did this 2 Fridays in a row.
I talked to the directer about it. I wasn't happy. She assurred me that that wouldn't happen again.

post #3 of 11
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There are a lot of helpers. Plus there are a few teens that help out. My niece is one of them. I am just thinking back to when I was teaching. I had 25 kids and I had no problems with controlling them and it was just me.
post #4 of 11
I also agree that it wasn't fair to punish the whole bunch. These children are too young to understand why someone else's behavior would affect their privledges. I think I'd have to voice my opinion to the director(s) and hopefully many other parents would do the same!
post #5 of 11
Not fair. I think a better punishment for the seven who misbehaved would be for them to not be allowed to go swimming when the others do. It might make them think twice the next time they get the urge to misbehave. The kids who behave are truly the ones being punished. It probably doesn't really bother the bad kids since no one gets to swim.
post #6 of 11
It doesn't seem fair to me. Seems like they could have found something else for those seven to do while the others went to the pool rather than punish the whole group.
post #7 of 11
Heck, I don't like that and I'm a grown up. I think they're unintentionally giving the misbehaving kids power. They can keep the whole group from doing fun things. If they had to stay behind while all their friends went swimming, they'd reform so they could go too.

Poor Gavin. I can see where the kids who did behave might start feeling like it was useless to behave since they were going to loose their swimming priviledges anyway.
post #8 of 11
I don't think that sounds fair at all.
post #9 of 11
OK its totally unfair to punish everyone, when it was only 7 who were actin gup.....

why not make the 7 sit out....maybe they would learn more from it since everyone else would be having fun at hte pool....i mean its not like they are starved for people to watch the 7 misbehaved kids....and if they are bad all the time...then maybe they should be asked to miss a day or 2 because of their behaviour???/
post #10 of 11
I don't think those kids are going to learn by everyone being punished. I think those 7 kids should get to sit on the side and watch the kids who behaved swim and play in the pool! I would be mad to.
post #11 of 11
Nope not fair at all. Running a day care, I know how hard it is when you have one bad apple...I can only imagine having 7 of them. But no way should the good kids get punished. Let the naughty ones sit on the side and watch or call their parents to come and get them.
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