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Inviting the cousins?

post #1 of 6
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Drew will be 11 next month and he wants to have a bowling party. As long as there aren't too many kids I don't have a problem with it. The kicker is that he doesn't want all his little cousins there (the next oldest that would be able to come is 7). He wants it to be just him and his friends. I think he is old enough now that he shouldn't have to include all his little girl cousins to his party. But I just know that rick's family is going to have a cow about it. I thought that we could just do a cake and ice cream thing for the family and I would still make up little goodie bags for the kiddos. But the actual party would be limited to Drew and his friends.

What do ya'll think of this? And how do I handle telling Rick's family that none of the girls are invited to go bowling with him?
post #2 of 6
I think your plan is a good one - after all it is Drews party.
post #3 of 6
Drews party so Drew picks.

Will you be doing a family party? They can get little party baggies there.
post #4 of 6
Drew has every right to want a party with just him and his friends. Too bad the grown-ups can't be grown up about it. Just explain to the family that you are having a day for family and having a seperate day for just Drew & his friends. If they have an attitude about it, that is their problem. And if by chance they give Drew a bad time about it, then don't include them in anything.
post #5 of 6
Sounds like a plan to me. I would just be honest with him and tell them Drew is growing up and wants a party with his friends. Everyone was a 11 once. They should understand, espeically, if you have an alternate gathering for family.
post #6 of 6
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That's how I feel, Lenora. He is old enough now that he shouldn't be expected to do everything that his much younger GIRL do. Nor should he ba expected to invite them to everything. I am all for family and I always make him go to family gatherings. But he is at the age where he doesn't want to be around a bunch of little girls for his birthday party and I don't think he should have to be.

Heck, even Ally isn't invited to his party (although she may have to go if I can't get a sitter). But Rick's family is so weird about these things sometimes. I never know if they will go along with it or what. What's even worse is that he wants his cousins in Dallas to come down for the party - the girls are 12 and almost 10. How can I invite them if I don't invite the little ones?

Jannie, I plan on doing a cake and ice cream get-together for the family with goodie bags for the little ones. With their ages being newborn, 1 1/2, 4, 4 1/2, 5, 7 and 7, I think the kids will have no problems as long as they gets the goodies! LOL! It's the parents I am worried about.
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