I've been on and off this website, always being interested when the big PG thing is coming up. Anyway, I have this on my mind, and just wanted to share.
DH and I had a big talk about another baby last weekend. I have been feeling pg, even though my period came right on time, and I told him I knew he doesn't want another one, but I really do. I told him why (don't think I have to get into that with you gals) and everything, and he is starting to warm up. He said "I don't want another one, but I know I will love it". For him that's pretty darn good.
Anyway, I am in school right now with another 2 years left. He wants to wait until I am working, but I think the boys will be 6 and 8 by then, that's a big gap. I told him I want to get my IUD removed and try to have on during my summer break, which would give us three possible month. That way I can stay home without having to worry about school, and I will be home during the afternoon, so the baby will be a year before he/she goes to someone else full time. I also like the fact that Cedric will only be about 4 years older, so the gap isn't too big.
He said this morning he will think about it. He has until the middle of August to make up his mind, because that's when I need to get the IUD taken out to use the full three months. I don't want to keep bothering him, because then he will say no anyway, but I so want him to make a decision and hopefully tell me yes. In some ways I can see him doing it, and I already had a PG test in my shopping cart twice, just to put it back because I think there is no way he will agree to it. And if he does, there is the whole other story on whether or not I actually will get pg in three months. Because if not I will have to go back on BC because I can't be worrying about delivering a baby during the semester, so the summer break is the only chance.
I really want one more. I always wanted one more after Cedric, but I am not sure if I want to start again when the boys are 6 and 8. Of course I won't tell him that.
It already is a lot that I got him to agree to another one period, wanting him to agree to next year is really pushing it.
Keep your fingers crossed and wish me luck.
And hope I don't go completely crazy!!!
DH and I had a big talk about another baby last weekend. I have been feeling pg, even though my period came right on time, and I told him I knew he doesn't want another one, but I really do. I told him why (don't think I have to get into that with you gals) and everything, and he is starting to warm up. He said "I don't want another one, but I know I will love it". For him that's pretty darn good.
Anyway, I am in school right now with another 2 years left. He wants to wait until I am working, but I think the boys will be 6 and 8 by then, that's a big gap. I told him I want to get my IUD removed and try to have on during my summer break, which would give us three possible month. That way I can stay home without having to worry about school, and I will be home during the afternoon, so the baby will be a year before he/she goes to someone else full time. I also like the fact that Cedric will only be about 4 years older, so the gap isn't too big.
He said this morning he will think about it. He has until the middle of August to make up his mind, because that's when I need to get the IUD taken out to use the full three months. I don't want to keep bothering him, because then he will say no anyway, but I so want him to make a decision and hopefully tell me yes. In some ways I can see him doing it, and I already had a PG test in my shopping cart twice, just to put it back because I think there is no way he will agree to it. And if he does, there is the whole other story on whether or not I actually will get pg in three months. Because if not I will have to go back on BC because I can't be worrying about delivering a baby during the semester, so the summer break is the only chance.
I really want one more. I always wanted one more after Cedric, but I am not sure if I want to start again when the boys are 6 and 8. Of course I won't tell him that.
It already is a lot that I got him to agree to another one period, wanting him to agree to next year is really pushing it.
Keep your fingers crossed and wish me luck.
And hope I don't go completely crazy!!!
Good luck hun! I want another too but when right now is the big question. Sometimes I think ya gotta go with the flow and when mother nature decides your ready baby will be there for you 
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