Well, BIL was served yesterday (Wednesday) with the papers for the temp protective order. Attached to those were emails that passed between the ex girlfriend and me.
MIL called last night and we talked about it briefly, she knows that I told the ex GF to tell the judge that BIL is a convicted felon with guns in his house. According to BIL, there are 25 pages of emails attached to the paperwork. According to the ex GF she only printed out two emails and because they had older ones attached, it amounted to about 9 pages. I don't know what to think or do or believe. My name was only supposed to be brought in if they went to court and she needed a witness since BIL did tell me on he phone once that he was going to kill the ex GF and her mom.
This afternoon, BIL is taking all the paperwork and my emails to MIL to read. He is a big fat baby and cannot handle anything on his own. He will be 35 on Sept 4 and he runs to his mom with everything.
So, all I can do is sit and wait and see what her reaction is. I will stand by all I told the ex because it's all true. I don't want my relationship with MIL to be affected by this, but blood is thicker than water, and I know she will probably stick by BIL even though he did wrong and ultimately I did this to protect his son and unborn daughter. We'll see what happens.
The ex is supposed to email MIL today and just tell her how scared she has been of BIL and how many times he has threatened her and her family over the past few months and try to explain to her that none of this was done (the TPO or my helping her) out of spite, but it was done out of trying to protect herself and her family and children. BIL has convinced MIL that the ex is vindictive and tries to hurt him, etc. I don't buy that. She has never once gone after him for child support and their son is four years old. I could go on and on. Y'all just please pray that this works out okay and that MIL doesn't hate me. Please pray and send positive vibes my way. Thanks!
MIL called last night and we talked about it briefly, she knows that I told the ex GF to tell the judge that BIL is a convicted felon with guns in his house. According to BIL, there are 25 pages of emails attached to the paperwork. According to the ex GF she only printed out two emails and because they had older ones attached, it amounted to about 9 pages. I don't know what to think or do or believe. My name was only supposed to be brought in if they went to court and she needed a witness since BIL did tell me on he phone once that he was going to kill the ex GF and her mom.This afternoon, BIL is taking all the paperwork and my emails to MIL to read. He is a big fat baby and cannot handle anything on his own. He will be 35 on Sept 4 and he runs to his mom with everything.
So, all I can do is sit and wait and see what her reaction is. I will stand by all I told the ex because it's all true. I don't want my relationship with MIL to be affected by this, but blood is thicker than water, and I know she will probably stick by BIL even though he did wrong and ultimately I did this to protect his son and unborn daughter. We'll see what happens.
The ex is supposed to email MIL today and just tell her how scared she has been of BIL and how many times he has threatened her and her family over the past few months and try to explain to her that none of this was done (the TPO or my helping her) out of spite, but it was done out of trying to protect herself and her family and children. BIL has convinced MIL that the ex is vindictive and tries to hurt him, etc. I don't buy that. She has never once gone after him for child support and their son is four years old. I could go on and on. Y'all just please pray that this works out okay and that MIL doesn't hate me. Please pray and send positive vibes my way. Thanks!






Hopefully she'll see that you did something that was very difficult, but right considering the circumstances. Just ask her how she'd live with herself if something happened to her grandchildren???
It must be tough for your dh to have a brother like that when he is not like that at all.