It's November. In three weeks the inlaws will be coming to visit. 
I do NOT want those people in my house.
I do NOT want to have to deal with the attitudes.
I do NOT want to have to feed them.
I do NOT want to have to entertain them.
I do not want to have to clean the house and make it look like nobody actually lives here just so they'll be happy.
ARGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!







Just say something like "Oh I thought y'all were bringing dinner?" 
. DH has it somewhere. I just need to know when to ask for overtime. 
together!