Ok, I am just absolutely furious with my sister. I swear, if she were standing in front of me right now, I'd probaly smack her. 
Ok, see, my dad has a lot of health problems right now - he's diabetic, has recurring bouts of cellulitus, major high blood pressure, and his doctor has put in category of very high risk for stroke or heart attack, high cholesterol. He has to wear an oxygen mask to sleep everynight.Everytime I see him, which is at least once a month, I'm amazed at how much he ages in such a short time. He suffers chronic severe headaches. His hair has gone completely white from dark brown in a matter of 3 months. Most of his conditions are aggravated by stress. And my sister, the evil selfish apparently heartless little wench, is just making it worse. She and my nephew live with my dad. She's hardly ever home - says " Oh I'm just running to the store real quick" leaves my nephew with my dad, and is gone for hours. She does not help at all with any of the bills, but has no problem running most of them sky high. I thank God daily that Dad's job is something he enjoys and is pretty easy on him physically. She doesn't do anything around the house, like clean up after herself or her kid occasionnally. When she does bother to cook, she only makes enough for herself and my nephew., then has the nerve to leave the dishes for dad to have to do. Before she moved in, Dad was doing a pretty good job, paying attention to his diet and exercise the way he's supposed to, taking his medicines when he's supposed to, and overall managing his problems and getting better. Now she's there, he's been in a total downhill spiral. He told Eric (he didn't tell me cuz he didn't want to worry me) that his doctor has recommended surgery to repair some of the damge he's had to his heart. Now I see him and how frail he is becoming, and I just don;t want to leave. I hug him and don't wanna let go, cuz I know the very real possoblity it might be the last time. And my horrible sister just doesn't seem to care. All she cares about is finding someone to dump her kid off on all the time so she can go out parttying with her stupid boyfriend. I really wonder how someone as cold as she is could possibly have come from someone as warm and caring as my Dad.
Ok, see, my dad has a lot of health problems right now - he's diabetic, has recurring bouts of cellulitus, major high blood pressure, and his doctor has put in category of very high risk for stroke or heart attack, high cholesterol. He has to wear an oxygen mask to sleep everynight.Everytime I see him, which is at least once a month, I'm amazed at how much he ages in such a short time. He suffers chronic severe headaches. His hair has gone completely white from dark brown in a matter of 3 months. Most of his conditions are aggravated by stress. And my sister, the evil selfish apparently heartless little wench, is just making it worse. She and my nephew live with my dad. She's hardly ever home - says " Oh I'm just running to the store real quick" leaves my nephew with my dad, and is gone for hours. She does not help at all with any of the bills, but has no problem running most of them sky high. I thank God daily that Dad's job is something he enjoys and is pretty easy on him physically. She doesn't do anything around the house, like clean up after herself or her kid occasionnally. When she does bother to cook, she only makes enough for herself and my nephew., then has the nerve to leave the dishes for dad to have to do. Before she moved in, Dad was doing a pretty good job, paying attention to his diet and exercise the way he's supposed to, taking his medicines when he's supposed to, and overall managing his problems and getting better. Now she's there, he's been in a total downhill spiral. He told Eric (he didn't tell me cuz he didn't want to worry me) that his doctor has recommended surgery to repair some of the damge he's had to his heart. Now I see him and how frail he is becoming, and I just don;t want to leave. I hug him and don't wanna let go, cuz I know the very real possoblity it might be the last time. And my horrible sister just doesn't seem to care. All she cares about is finding someone to dump her kid off on all the time so she can go out parttying with her stupid boyfriend. I really wonder how someone as cold as she is could possibly have come from someone as warm and caring as my Dad.
some sense into that girl. How old is she? That is totally selfish, not only in regards to your father but to just go out partying instead of taking care of her child. She needs to either turn it around or find somewhere else to live.
