Cheryl,I am not being mean or rude, so please dont take it as that.
For the past couple of years I have hinted to Rich about getting me a diamond heart pendant, even
hinted about it this year. I dont want an expensive one, it is only about $400. And this year, I never got it. I wasnt disappointed at all because I know we cant affored it. He got me a really nice card, and ended up taking us all out for dinner.
I am sorry that Steve didnt get you the Spa package that you wanted, but I think the most important thing that he gives you is his love, he doesnt need a day to say how much he loves you and give you some material object to show it. I told Rich about the re-do gift thing and what he would do if I ever suggested it, jokingly he said he would tell me to shove it. But he said, it shouldnt be about "something given to you, like a present", but it should be about your love. He said if i was to do that to him, not matter what he got me, he would be hurt. I am sure you were not expecting a pen, but I guess it was something other than nothing. Plus you said you had a wonderful evening together

and that is priceless. I think sometimes people tend to forget that it isnt about what you get, but what you got already.
