I heard the phrase "it will happen" enough to drive anyone crazy. Have you had any testing done for infertility issues? My dh and I both had to have several tests done to rule out problems that could cause infertility. In the end I had to have surgery for endometriosis. You can also try having your tubes cleaned out. It should be covered by insurance. My sister and her dh were given a 5% chance to have kids without going through Invetro but she got pregnant shortly after her tubes were cleaned out. You do have options.