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post #1 of 9
3/20/06 at 1:22pm
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Well, I just decided that it'll be ok not to get pg again and that I am ok with the two boys I have. We have been using a diaphragm, kinda, but haven't been too concerned since my hormones were still out of wack.

Well, I started light bleeding/spotting February 28th, but didn't really start AF until about a week later, but I still figured my cycle started the beginning of March.

Well, on Saturday DH and I weren't all too carefull and didn't use it, but I thought I am three weeks into my cycle, so we should be good. Last night I got this sharp pain in my lower right side, and I am almost convinced it was ovulation pain. It would make sense if my cycle didn't start until I really started AF.
But that means I had unprotected "fun" the day before I ovulated. Everytime I did that before I ended up pg.

I don't really know what to think. I really just decided that I would be ok not being pg again, and that that would actually be better for us. Now I think there might be a good chance I could end up being due in December. In some ways I feel like jumping the gun, and I am not even sure, but it's a weird feeling.

Any of you ever bled/spotted before AF started? I know I read about it before. But then when is the beginning of your cycle?
I am really kinda confused. I am scared I am ending up pg, but at the same time I am scared I am ending up getting AF. It's weird, I'm sorry.

I'll guess we'll see in two weeks at most what's going on.
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post #2 of 9
3/20/06 at 1:47pm
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post #3 of 9
3/20/06 at 1:50pm
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post #4 of 9
3/20/06 at 1:50pm
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post #5 of 9
3/20/06 at 2:36pm
Since my dd was born, I almost always do. It's a frustration.
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post #6 of 9
3/21/06 at 1:16am
I can understand where your coming from so don't apologize.


I read about spotting too in The What To Expect While Your Expecting book. I never had it but I know it does happen.
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post #7 of 9
3/21/06 at 1:30am
I've always been told that your cycle begins the first day of spotting, like if you spot one day and then AF shows heavy the next the day you spotted was day 1. But if you spotted one day and then waited a week to start AF, I think the day she actually started should be day 1, and the other day maybe just some breakthrough bleeding or something... I'm not positive on that though.

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post #8 of 9
3/21/06 at 11:21am
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Well, I thought the same thing, Meghan. But I am almost 99% sure I ovulated on Sunday. My cervical fluid would fit for that, too, because after I felt the pain, I checked it and it was very much like egg white.
I guess with me bleeding for so long after my mc things might have still been out of wack.

As much as I would like to be pg again, I hope I am not. Overall, it would be better. But if I am, I will keep it a secret until May. No need to hurt anyone else if I mc again.
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post #9 of 9
3/21/06 at 2:16pm
Jerry and I were never really planning on Nick......had the if it happens, it happens kind of approach. We had months of unprotected sex, but never while i was ovulating.....well the one night we did do "the deed" I ovulated the next day.....a week later I knew i was pg with him
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