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Am I that bad?

post #1 of 14
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Kyle and I got into this discussion last night about Emily. Emily has always been in the 95th percentile size wise, even when I was breastfeeding her as an infant, but her weight and height have always been in proportion, so it was not a concern. At her 3 year check up, her pediatrician said she was finally about average for her age, still a little above, but closer to average. So after that DH gets it in his head that she is going to be overweight.
Let me clarify: He was overweight as a child and for part of his teenaged years. I am overweight now, but I never was overweight as a child, a teenager, or an adult--until I got married. When I say I was not overweight, I mean, in my 20's I wore a size 3 or 5. I really was thin.
Anyway, so last night Kyle says that he thinks I give Emily too much sugar. Do I?
She drinks chocolate milk for breakfast. She won't drink regular milk. I asked her pediatrician about it, and he said it didn't matter that it was chocolate milk as long as she is drinking milk (I do 2% milk with hershey's calcium enriched syrup mixed in it)
She also eats a carton of yogurt for breakfast. I do give her a small amount of sprinkles to mix in it, but by the time she eats four bites of yogurt, there are no more sprinkles.
She drinks apple or grape juice, which I always dilute with water. She only drinks juice with her meals or if she asks for it. She doesn't always have a cup sitting around.
If I drink water, she drinks water, too.
She doesn't eat cookies. She doesn't eat candy. She might get a dum-dum lollipop once a day some days, but those are small lollipops. She doesn't eat ice cream.
She does chew sugar-free trident bubble gum.
She also eats baked cheez its, an apple, or raisins for snack. She never eats those gummy-type fruit snacks. (She used to, but I stopped giving those to her when DH was b*tching about this before.)
I honestly do not think she is eating that much sugar. He acts like she eats it all day long. He eats more sugar than she does, but he says he's an adult and can do that.
post #2 of 14
I think that you're doing great... it sounds like she's not getting that much sugar.
post #3 of 14
What is wrong with that man? Sounds to me like you are doing a great job! My kids eat more sugar than that on a daily basis and I would love to have them eating as well as Emily does!

He needs to re-analyze what the doctor said and if he's still being hard headed about it, call the doctor and ask him to clarify TO KYLE because you shouldn't have to be stressing over that right now with everything else that's going on!
post #4 of 14
That's barely any sugar at all!
post #5 of 14
It's easy to worry about your child's size no matter where they are on the spectrum. My dd is in the 3rd percentile and we worry about her all the time. I'd say that Emily is just perfect for Emily.
post #6 of 14
Emily could start out high in her percentile range but slow down real soon and end up being really petite. Kelsey for the longest time was in the high range but she got taller in the last year and actually lost a size because it all evened out.
post #7 of 14
Joey has always been small for his age, but as long as he's growing, and everything's in proportion, I don't stress over it. He's the smallest kid in his Scout den, he's the smallest kid in class...

It sounds like she is eating sweets, but at least it's not 3 pounds of candy a day - what sugar she's eating at least has nutritional value. And tell him, even adults shouldn't OD on sugar - maybe he should cut back.

post #8 of 14
For a start children need MORE sugar than adults so tell Kyle to sit on it and rotate. Children use sugar for energy, to run, jump, play and GROW

There was a report about 21 years ago about middle class children and how they were suffering from Malnutrition because their parents were putting them on ''healthy'' no sugar, no fat diets. Yes they are healthy for adults, but not for children children need fats and sugars (in moderation of course) to be healthy and grow without causing bone and muscle problems in later life.

And those percentiles are ''GUIDELINES" not the be all and end all.

Hells bells all 3 of my kids have always been in the 95% and at the moment my youngest two are (according to the 'charts') obese .

If you tried really hard you might be able to grab a pinch of skin around their tummys, but they are solid kids, solid muscle that is. They are also over 6 foot tall and weight around 190pd, they weigh more than I do BUT they have a lot more muscle than I do.

So tell Kyle to pull his head in and shut his mouth until he has done a lot of research instead of blindly believing every single thing he reads (I sure hope he doesn't read magazines with gossip columns, bc goodness only knows most of them have only a passing resemblence to the truth - sometimes they even manage to get the country right but that is about all, or they start screaming "shes' pregnant" and about a year later when whomever it is becomes pg they scream about how "we told it first", yeah right, a whole year before it was true you yell long enough and loud enough about things sooner or later you are going to get lucky and get it right once or twice.
post #9 of 14
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so tell Kyle to sit on it and rotate
I agree totally!
post #10 of 14
Hey Tammy, that quote is only to be used if it is something he won't enjoy

I can't tell Des I'm going to thump him bc he just says Yes please
post #11 of 14
Nicely said Lenora!
post #12 of 14
I think you are doing wonderful Tammy!
post #13 of 14
I think it sounds like she has a pretty sugar free diet. I know that my parents had to take away all the sugar in the house when I was little because I wasn't allowed to have it. But you have to think, just cause you don't have it in the house doesn't mean she might not be getting it. I used to go and ask the neighbors for candy
post #14 of 14
Sounds fine to me.
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