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Help--my baby has started crying and cannot stop!

post #1 of 8
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Ok, Moms, I need some guidance. This is our first baby and she has been an absolute dream until very recently. She is just a little over 6 months old. For the past week and a half or so, she is just about inconsolable. She cries if she is not sitting on your lap or being held. I cannot even sit on the floor with her and try to get her to play for more than a few seconds before she starts crying to be held again. She is also not sleeping at night anymore. She wakes up about once an hour just screaming. I can usually console her and get her back to sleep pretty easily (thank goodness), but the daytime is just miserable for her right now. She just doesn't want to do any of the things she used to love to do, like play in her exersaucer, tummy time, swing, etc. She is absolutely panic stricken and hysterical if you leave the room. And once she starts crying to be picked up, there is no turning back. I have tried to let her cry for a few minutes to see if she can pull herself out of it, but she is so worked up, she gets choked and has a coughing fit.She has been to the pedi and nothing wrong, no ear infection or anything like that they said. She has been teething but does not seem like she is now (I mean, she is not chewing as much as she when she got her first tooth or drooling as much). I just wish I knew what to do for her to be happy again. She gets this panic stricken look on her face when you set her down and just starts wailing. Is this a phase, is there something I am doing/not doing? Any physical things I might not be looking for? Any advice at all would be greatly appreciated. I feel like I am failing her now and I don't want her to pick up on my insecurities also.
post #2 of 8
First, let me just say Welcome to BabyU!

Next, it sounds like you've already covered what my initial response would be, which is to take her to the doctor to make sure there isn't something physical going on.

Since that's not the case, maybe she's just having some separation issues? It seems like all of mine went through that at some point, but I don't remember exactly how old they were. I'd say that you can't really hold her 24/7, so she's going to have to cry it out some of the time. As long as she sees that you'll still be there, this phase will hopefully pass quickly. Good luck and keep us posted!
post #3 of 8

I know with Delaney - that's how she gets when she's teething. That's how I KNOW she's teething. Nothing makes her happy unless she's being held and even THEN she's not fully "happy".

Good luck!
post #4 of 8
Welcome to BabyU!

I agree with Dawn..right now my daughter Kaitlyn is 10 months old and she hates to be put down. But she will calm down once she discovers some of her toys or if her twin brother or older sister comes over....I don't know what to tell you, I think it is just a phase she will grow out of as my oldest did. Good luck-I hope you find something that works for you.
post #5 of 8
First off, for you!!! And Welcome to Baby U!

My first thought would have been teething. Maybe gas. A lot of times my son had gas and we couldn't tell except for the screaming. My doctor told me to give him a dropper of Mylicon drops (or the store-brand version if that's cheaper) and wait a few minutes to see if he calmed down. He said if that wasn't it, a little of the Mylicon wouldn't hurt him. He did the same with teething. He would have no signs of teething, except the screaming, and then all of a sudden, three teeth popped through at once. We used Hyland's teething tablets, and they worked great. They are all natural, as well.

Good luck. Let us know what you find out!
post #6 of 8
i remember this phase all too well.

Thankfully it only lasted a few days with us and it was over, i remember trying snugli carriers and everything just so i could get some stuff done around the house.

If you are stressed and worried about what is wrong with her, i found that they pick up on that intensly, so if you can relax and accept that it will be over soon she should calm down.

this is only in my experience. I hope it helps



Welcome to Baby U!
post #7 of 8
Welcome to Baby U!

I have my 2nd screaming child, however, mine have stomach/GI problems, so that's where we are at. Try some of the colic holds as well.... puts a little pressure on their tummy, which seems to soothe a bit.

Could be teething, could be just the stage for separation anxiety to kick in.

Just lots of loves, hugs, cuddles. If things don't get better, take your little one BACK to the Ped. There may be something he/she missed.

Good luck and
post #8 of 8
Been there. Duncan hated being put down around that time. But he was also teething. I can't add anymore than these ladies have offered. Good luck.
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