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I am scarred

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I mentioned it in my journal, we are probably going to try for another one this month. For those of you who don't know, I miscarried in september of 2005 and again in January of 2006 both around 9 weeks. While both miscarriages had different reasons, I am scarred to death to go through it again.
The last baby I saw on an ultrasound just a few hours before I caught it in my hand. It was a live and well on the ultrasound.
Since the reasons were different, I keep telling myself it'll be all right. I had two healthy ones without any problems. But I can't help but preparing myself that it won't work this time, either. If I even get pregnant, but that has never been the problem.
If it works, I will see my ob asap, but they couldn't help last time, either...

Ok, I am getting myself into a rotten mood.
I'll keep my hopes up, and hopefully get to read about all you nice women out there who had more than one mc and went on to have a healthy baby afterwards.
post #2 of 10
I went through the same thing. By time I was pregnant with oldest DS (4th pregnancy) I cried for the first 12 weeks, because I just knew that I was going to miscarry again. It's hard and there is nothing you can do to stop yourself from worrying.
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I'm sending positive vibes your way and I really hope it works out for you this time.
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Thank you
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you are braver than me right now. you are in my thoughts all the time Eva
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I had 2 miscarriages before having my first child. I know what you mean about being scared. When I was pregnant with my oldest it was so different because nobody (except one friend of mine) would let themselves get excited about the pregnancy. My mother said something like "Oh." We never knew what caused my miscarriages and I've had 4 pregnancies without complications after them.

I hope you get pregnant next month and you have absolutely no complications.
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Re: I am scarred

hi evak dont u loss on hope.......the best thing you can do is to try and think positive .........i have seen cases where there are more then 1 mc and still they have positive pregnancy..........so all the luck and tell us wat happenend
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