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Is it over yet?

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I can't wait until this moving thing is over with. My mom told me she couldn't help me move...she never told me different so I found people. Now she tells me I have too many people, but whatever. So one of the people I called is my dad. She tells me while in hysterics that she can't be here if he is because he's being an a** to her. Whatever, it's not like they talk very often now that my brother and I are grown, she only calls him when she wants money from him. (long story).

So she's all upset and tells me he gave her hives, OVER THE PHONE! I want that power. So I told her calmly that since she didn't tell me she was planning on helping again that I don't need her, she can leave her vehicle and I took care of it. Nothing like throwing a temper tantrum to try and get her way, because what she wants is me to tell my dad not to come, not for her not to help.

It's not like she can do something for someone and not expect something back anyhow, she'll hold it over your head for 20 years. She's already trying to bully her way into the new apartment so "She" can clean and organize. I told her I have time on my hands and I'll take care of my own organizing and unpacking.
post #2 of 8
goodness! Sounds like she's trying to control everything......I think you were right to tell her that you don't need her to help, I mean, since she said she couldn't help and you found other people, she doesn't have any say so anyways.

I hope you can get moved fast!
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post #4 of 8
It will probably be an easier move and a more relaxing day without her. I don't know of anyone who wants someone else to "decorate and organize" their space.
post #5 of 8
OY! Do you have any hair left ?!?

I sure hope the move goes FAST !
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post #7 of 8
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Oh she's been a bear this week. Now it's about my dad and how if he's invited to the shower she might not come.

I think I'm telling her that I'm not choosing one parent over the other...either they both come or they can both stay home. HELLO GROW UP! It's always her that makes the stink. It's not like my dad has anyone but me and my brother so they'll be no party with him for the baby. She can be cordial for 1 lousy day. What's next scheduling who comes to the hospital when so she doesn't have to see him?!!!!
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