Hi everyone. I am new here, but I am looking for some advice. This is my first pregnancy, and I have been hesitant to have a shower. I am due in 6 weeks. My aunt and cousins offered to throw me one, and I told them that would really be nice. I also told them that my mother wanted to help, as did a few other friends. When my mom called to talk about the shower, I referred her to my aunt.
Fast forward a week and my aunt calls me to tell me that she is not willing to work with my mom on the shower (they have past issues.) Instead of telling my mother this, she is simply not returning her phone calls. My aunt told me that she and my cousins will "do their own thing." Well, I do not have enough people for two showers, plus I don't really have time for that.
The stress of this is making me so upset that I don't want to have any shower at this point. Any ideas? Thanks.
Fast forward a week and my aunt calls me to tell me that she is not willing to work with my mom on the shower (they have past issues.) Instead of telling my mother this, she is simply not returning her phone calls. My aunt told me that she and my cousins will "do their own thing." Well, I do not have enough people for two showers, plus I don't really have time for that.
The stress of this is making me so upset that I don't want to have any shower at this point. Any ideas? Thanks.
