Ok so we have been together for 12 years, and it has recently come to my attention that i cannot stand my BIL's on Dh's side.
they are inconsiderate, selfish and figure that no matter what is going on with us, that we should drop it and take care of them.
the story behind this is two fold.
dh's one brother is really screwd up in the head. he lived here for a couple of years scammed the government got a decent job, got his head on straight, then his sister came out for a visit and he decided to move up to the city with her and her kids. fine and dandy until the kids turn into teenagers and start disrespecting him, so he moves back here. he kept on showing up unanounced during dinner and stuff when i don't have enough to offer him as well as he is allergic to peanuts so i can't just give him food, our house is laced in peanut butter.
long story short, we don't have the time and attention to give him (he's 44) so he is moving back to the city, he shows up here thursday at 525 wanting to have a visit, pick up some stuff and say bye to logan properly. all fine and dandy, NOT! Swim lessons are at 545 and i am on my way out the door. i let him in the garage and left.
plus this week is an annual big sale for dh, he is working from 8am to 11pm all week, and this brother is mad that dh didn't have time to help him move
he got a cousin to help. and is gone
for now
they are inconsiderate, selfish and figure that no matter what is going on with us, that we should drop it and take care of them.
the story behind this is two fold.
dh's one brother is really screwd up in the head. he lived here for a couple of years scammed the government got a decent job, got his head on straight, then his sister came out for a visit and he decided to move up to the city with her and her kids. fine and dandy until the kids turn into teenagers and start disrespecting him, so he moves back here. he kept on showing up unanounced during dinner and stuff when i don't have enough to offer him as well as he is allergic to peanuts so i can't just give him food, our house is laced in peanut butter.
long story short, we don't have the time and attention to give him (he's 44) so he is moving back to the city, he shows up here thursday at 525 wanting to have a visit, pick up some stuff and say bye to logan properly. all fine and dandy, NOT! Swim lessons are at 545 and i am on my way out the door. i let him in the garage and left.
plus this week is an annual big sale for dh, he is working from 8am to 11pm all week, and this brother is mad that dh didn't have time to help him move
he got a cousin to help. and is gone
for now
