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So irritated with SIL!!!!!!

post #1 of 7
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And no I'm not talking about Shona.

Okay, a little background, for those of you that don't know there are 5 kids in my family. George and I aren't unique. That makes 4 sibling gifts, 3 spouse gifts, and 15 kids (including grown ones) just on my side of the family. Of course none of us can afford that so we don't buy for everyone. The family is drifting a little with Mom gone, and Dad well... being busy with his new life, so I thought we should do a gift exchange. Sent out an email to the family MONTHS ago, about doing this Christmas book exchange among the kids. The idea being that you can get a book for a buck or two, and it doesn't cost much to spend. This way no one spends a fortune (didn't work for us, I bought a book for all the kids, that way if someone fell thru their wouldn't be a kid without a book). Everyone agreed it would be a great idea...

So at the begining of November (I think it was Shona can correct if need be) I sent out the reminder email, of who was buying for who, that it was supposed to be books tell each other what your kids read, used books are okay etc...

Two days after purchasing ALL of the books, I get an email from my neice asking what books Karah would like. I let her know that it doesn't really matter since she's so little. 4 hours later I get another email (which I think my SIL wrote) telling me that they aren't really into reading but what they (meaning all 3 kids, plus one baby) would like something really unique from Germany. Okay... I CANT AFFORD THAT! There is no way that I can afford to purchase neat Germany things for all of these kids. And I'm sorry I'm not buying for one, what I can't do for all. That's not right.

Anyway sent her an email saying sorry, present already in the mail hope you like them maybe for your birthday. Remember, I really don't think she wrote the letter.

So a box comes from Iowa today. Yes, they bought books. For all three of the kids, when they were only supposed to buy for Karah. There's also some type of toy for Karah too. Now my question is did they buy for the other kids they were supposed to buy for? I sure as hell hope so! AAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!

Now I know this is really a minor issue, but it just frustrates me, this book exchange was supposed to simplify life for the whole family while bringing the kids together.

Okay, thanks I really needed to vent that before I go email them to let them know that the package got here.
post #2 of 7
Thread Starter 
And Shona, the email that I just sent is NOT directed at you guys. I'm just really concerned that they didn't mail to everyone they were supposed to. Hoping that email will make them realize it if they made a mistake.

LY
post #3 of 7
You know I saw that title and automatically said, "I wonder what A has done now"

I personally don't care if she bought what she was supposed to ( if my boys are on her list) I worry about the others on her list though. Now, my question for you is.. did you honestly think this was going to go without a hitch from her?
post #4 of 7
Thread Starter 
I was hoping it would.... I can't remember who she got and don't feel like looking it up. I just keep reminding myself that I made sure every single one of the kids had a book, so even if she screws around no one got left out.
post #5 of 7
Wow. I hope it goes off ok.

My first thought was WOW they don't really read? Book exchange is an awesome idea! I also think its a great idea that you got all the kids a book too. Thats so sweet!
post #6 of 7
Ugh...I can sympathize because I have a sil who doesn't cooperate with the rest of the family either.

post #7 of 7
my aunt is like that
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