I am BEYOND frustrated and depressed about the situation with my in laws and my BIL.
on sunday, we went to his place which was a good 20 min out of the city. i didnt want to go bc i cant STAND my BIL bc he thinks he can do ANYTHING to make anyone like him. and i dont want that around my son. he should be a role model, not my son's best friend. anyways, he has a roomate who jsut got divorced. lets name my BIL's roomate Fred. anyways , fred's 2 kids (3yr old girl and 6 yr old boy) were there for the "party". Fred gave his daughter beer inf ront of me and i was like WTF?! then my BIL said, " oh dont worry, we give her beer all the time. it keeps her happy during the day and knocks her out at night".
if u guys havent read my previous posts about the chocolate incident, u should hehe. this beer thing makes me REALLY edgy ad makes me want to PUNCH the crap out of my BIL and fred. it makes matters worse bc now i dont want chace around him PERIOD and even if he did see chace, he WILL be with me AND my husband both.
and whats sad, is that my MIL sat there and laughed like she was encouraging it. im so sick of her damn self babying her 2 GROWN ass boys like they are 4 yrs old.
and one time, my FIL held chace and chace started crying and he told me " you're training him to hate me" and "you guys never visit anymore thats why he doesnt like me"
im so DAMN sick of all of them. in TWO days, we saw them 4 times. and ONE out fo the 4 times, we weren't about to go but MIL got mad. its lame! im so SICK of them ALWAYS wanting to see us and chace. its so annoying and they STILl come over without calling and i just agitated. The novelty about having grandparents is seeing them once in awhile. in our case, we see them all the damn time. I WANT TO HAVE MY OWN LIFE withjust my husband and my son, not with his ENTIRE damn family. its SO annoying and i need help in some advice... badly, i just get sooo agitated.
another instance, we went to lucnh with his dad the other day and i was pissed bc i knew he was a sneaky bastard. anyways, we get there and eat and my BIL shows up. OH WHAT A FREAKIN SURPRISE! my in laws KNOW that i dont like him and they still act like ****ing 5 yrs olds...
help...
on sunday, we went to his place which was a good 20 min out of the city. i didnt want to go bc i cant STAND my BIL bc he thinks he can do ANYTHING to make anyone like him. and i dont want that around my son. he should be a role model, not my son's best friend. anyways, he has a roomate who jsut got divorced. lets name my BIL's roomate Fred. anyways , fred's 2 kids (3yr old girl and 6 yr old boy) were there for the "party". Fred gave his daughter beer inf ront of me and i was like WTF?! then my BIL said, " oh dont worry, we give her beer all the time. it keeps her happy during the day and knocks her out at night".
if u guys havent read my previous posts about the chocolate incident, u should hehe. this beer thing makes me REALLY edgy ad makes me want to PUNCH the crap out of my BIL and fred. it makes matters worse bc now i dont want chace around him PERIOD and even if he did see chace, he WILL be with me AND my husband both.
and whats sad, is that my MIL sat there and laughed like she was encouraging it. im so sick of her damn self babying her 2 GROWN ass boys like they are 4 yrs old.
and one time, my FIL held chace and chace started crying and he told me " you're training him to hate me" and "you guys never visit anymore thats why he doesnt like me"
im so DAMN sick of all of them. in TWO days, we saw them 4 times. and ONE out fo the 4 times, we weren't about to go but MIL got mad. its lame! im so SICK of them ALWAYS wanting to see us and chace. its so annoying and they STILl come over without calling and i just agitated. The novelty about having grandparents is seeing them once in awhile. in our case, we see them all the damn time. I WANT TO HAVE MY OWN LIFE withjust my husband and my son, not with his ENTIRE damn family. its SO annoying and i need help in some advice... badly, i just get sooo agitated.
another instance, we went to lucnh with his dad the other day and i was pissed bc i knew he was a sneaky bastard. anyways, we get there and eat and my BIL shows up. OH WHAT A FREAKIN SURPRISE! my in laws KNOW that i dont like him and they still act like ****ing 5 yrs olds...
help...
