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post #1 of 4
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okay, so im not sure what to do. i mean i wanna call CPS but i have nooo idea who that lil girls mom is, i've seen pics of her but never got to meet her. i wonder what her take is on thi. and you ladies are right, if anything happened to her id feel responsible.... if someone did this to chace id beat them to hell.
but the problem is, that "fred" is a family friend (to my IL's and BIL) so if i do this, i know that they will know its me. lmfao, but its the truth, BIL and IL should know that i hate them all very much right now haha bc of my attitude (and frankly i dont care. its my life, its my son, i'll do what i want).
but at the same time, my husband, he says he agrees with me but i know he feels guilty everytime we say no to an outing or what not. and i think its ridiculous how his parents have such a wrap on him! i'm so sick of this and i want to get ON with my life. iw anna call CPS but i know they will know it was me and i dont want them mad at me and my husband! well.. if they were mad at only me i'd deal with it...
anyways.. dunno what to do... my IL's do deserve to see their grandson but its a gift! a priviledge and they are BUSTIN MY CHOPS and driving me OUT OF MY MIND with wanting to see him TOO often . then they complain "oh we havent seen him in SO long" and its been like 3 days... whereas my parents in texas hasnt seen him since he was 5 days old.... so yah, they are stupid and i cant stand them..
i wish i had someone to vent to here in canada, but i still havent even made any friends.
post #2 of 4
Make the call and do it today. That child needs help. As for her mother, she's either unaware and needs to know what's going on and an investigation into the matter will do that or she's letting her child be in that environment and is just as much at fault.

As for you, sounds like you'll get what you want by having the inlaws leave you alone if you report the abuse. If everyone else in the family and circle of friends can't see the harm being done to that child then they don't deserve to be a part of her life. Really, is it more important to have them talking to you and your DH than to save this little girl?

Call CPS and report what's going on today.
post #3 of 4
hon I am pming you now!!!!! you do have a friend in Canada you can vent to, you can always vent to me. I will pm you my number, and if you can't call me, then I can always call you
post #4 of 4
We just had a child in the news that died after unreported abuse. I'm sure someone out there knew something and didn't do anything.

If you ILs don't talk to you after the report they don't deserve to be part of your family. Protecting the child is the first and foremost responsibility.
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