I'm at my wit's end with Jessi. She doesn't seem to have any motivation to complete her work, at home OR school. We've decided to start "paying" her for good grades on her report card. We're thinking about $10 for each "A" and $5 for each "B". The catch is that she has to pay US $5 for each "D" and $10 for each "F". Hopefully there won't be any of the latter. We also told her we'd give her $100 for straight "A's".
However, she will have to put 1/2 of whatever she earns into a savings account, then the other half is hers to spend as she'd like.
I want to do something similar with the boys, but they are still graded on the number scale and since Cody is struggling to stay at grade level, I don't think that's fair to him. We were thinking about the fact that at their ages, basically if they behave in school, they'll do fine academically. Because of this, I was thinking that maybe they could earn $1 per "S" (satisfactory) and $5 per "O" (outstanding). I'd make them put 1/2 in savings as well.
Would like to hear from those that have tried this type of system. Does it work? Am I teaching them to excel for the wrong reasons?
However, she will have to put 1/2 of whatever she earns into a savings account, then the other half is hers to spend as she'd like.
I want to do something similar with the boys, but they are still graded on the number scale and since Cody is struggling to stay at grade level, I don't think that's fair to him. We were thinking about the fact that at their ages, basically if they behave in school, they'll do fine academically. Because of this, I was thinking that maybe they could earn $1 per "S" (satisfactory) and $5 per "O" (outstanding). I'd make them put 1/2 in savings as well.
Would like to hear from those that have tried this type of system. Does it work? Am I teaching them to excel for the wrong reasons?





haven't really discussed it.

