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How do I handle this?

post #1 of 11
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You have all heard of me talk about my neice, Brittany (Rick's neice). I have always been closer to her than anyone else. But this time I am torn.

Long story short - I rented her a car for 3 days while her truck was in the shop. 2 weeks later I get a call that the car was never returned! Apparently her boyfriend (and the father of her 8mo old son) drove the car (after being told by ME that he couldn't), got stopped and they confiscated the car because he wasn't on the paperwork (they assumed it was stolen). She tried to get the car out the next day, but the storage place said the rental company had to pick it up. She never made sure they did, nor did she tell me what had happened, and she lied to me when I asked on Monday about the car being returned. On top of that, I loaned her the money ($250) to bail the loser out of jail (not knowing my rental car was involved).

There are almost $900 in rental car charges, plus whatever the storage fees are for the days the police had the car. I'm looking at about $1500 in charges that 1) I can't afford and 2) won't go thru because there is not that much money available on my CC, anyway. So this is definitely going to adversly affect my credit, which is finally back in good standing after years and years of hard work!

It is looking like the only way I am going to be able to get out of these charges to to say the car was stolen. That means the boyfriend will get arrested, which in turn will directly affect Brittany and her son, Camron. Which is going to cause a major problem with Rick's family.

Personally, unless they can come up with the money in the next few days (which I doubt) to cover all these charges, I have no problem with it. But I am worried about the effect this is going to have on Rick, Drew & Ally and their relationships with Rick's family. God knows it will make me persona-non-grata with some of them, but I don't really care about that. But with all of my family living so far away, Rick's family is all they have.

Any ideas? Suggestions? Comments? Opinions?
post #2 of 11
Wow- Honestly I think they need to come up with the money to cover the costs. Otherwise I think you need to report it stolen. Technically it was because it was done against your will. It sucks you have to play the bad guy but you can't let them off without consequences for their actions- otherwise they won't learn. Plus it sounds like they took advantage of your kindness. It was really nice of you to rent a car for her to begin with and she took it too far. Have you talked to Rick's family about the situation? Maybe they would have a solution.
post #3 of 11
What does Rick think? Whatever you decide to do, if Rick stands by you, it'll make things easier with the family, I'd think. They might still be ticked off at you, but if Rick agrees with you, it might soften the blow, KWIM?

If it were me, I'd definitely report the car stolen. Using a vehicle without the express consent of the owner (or in this case, the person on the rental agreement) is stealing it, period. Like you said, unless they can come up with the cash pronto, you almost have to do this, in order to protect yourself and your family.
post #4 of 11
I agree 100% with Judy!
post #5 of 11
I don't know what I would do. I would probably level with Brittany and tell her what a mess she has gotten you into, and let her know that unless they come up with the money, that your back is against the wall and you won't have any choice besides reporting the car stolen.
post #6 of 11
Thread Starter 
Yeah, that is pretty much what I think, too. And Rick asked why I did call the police and report it stolen the minute I got the call! He has NO sympathy for either of them and doesn't really care what his family thinks. Rick's parents want to try to pay us for it to avoid any problems (Brittany and her BF are both on probation), but Dad just retired. They don't have it and couldn't afford it even if they did. I'm not sure if Rick has talked to his older sister about it yet (Brittany's Mom). I have to call the rental company tomorrow and put them off until at least Thursday, since I will be out of pocket until then.
post #7 of 11
I think since Rick supports you in it, I would go ahead and report it stolen. I know that it will be hard, but they put you in this position where you ahve no other option.
post #8 of 11
Unless your neice can come up with some cash FAST, than I say you need to report it stolen as well. I also agree with Tammy (I think it was Tammy) that you need to sit down with your neice and talk to her about the mess.
post #9 of 11
Brenda, what ended up happening with this situation?
post #10 of 11
Thread Starter 
God, you wouldn't believe the latest in this saga! I got a call last Thursday that there was $740 worth of damages to the car where the police searched it. I talked to Brittany about it and she swears there was NO damage shen she looked at it that Sunday (she had to get inside the car to get her things out). I told the rental company that I want to see the pictures of the damage and and actual written estimate/report for fixing it. I also told them not to bother to put the charges thru since my card didn't have that much. We are still trying to get a copy of the police report and the names of everyone involved so I can give the info to Kim (my best friend the lawyer) so she can talk to Enterprise about all this. And Enterprise isn't being any help at all. I keep getting calls from different departments and no one knows what the others are doing! Argh!

But I do believe Brittany about there being no damage because the manager of the storage facility has said there was no damage when Britt was there and the DPS officer who talked to Enterprise never mentioned anything when he spoke to them or Brittany. We've had problems with Enterprise before, so it wouldn't surprise me if in fact Brittany is telling the truth. Only time will tell at this point. I refuse to stress over it right now - I have too many other things on my mind (like a sick kid) and I can't do anything about it anyway!
post #11 of 11
It never ends! That is just too much, but I don't blame you at all for being skeptical. My sister's husband was involved in a serious car accident (18 years ago--it left him paralyzed from the waist down) in a rental car. At the time he worked for Lockheed, and he was working, so the car was rented through Lockheed. Even after Lockheed paid for everything, the rental car company continued to try to sue my BIL and my sister for more damages. Needless to say, I don't trust rental car companies!
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