Unbearable...

As a parent what would give you the sickest feeling?For me it is hearing that my child has been touched in an inapporiate way.* I came home from camping with the girl scouts on SUnday and Sunday night Trey tells me that him and another child were in the bathroom.* He told me this kid asked him "Do you want to kiss penises?"They were peeing and Trey said that this child kissed his balls.* Trey said he pulled up his pants and ran out the bathroom.* I know this kid and I wanted to * Mad, upset discusted and troubled is what I was.I had to work yesterday and when my boss came in I told her that Trey had been touched and I needed to go to the school.* I went in and spoke to the principal and then he called Trey in for his story.* He told him exactly how it happened.* Showed him the bathroom and where it happened.* Then the counciler came in and talked with us.* Then they called the other child in.* He was in there like 15 minutes and this kid is saying that it happened at our daycare a couple years ago.* He said that they played a game called P & B (penis and butt) so now the principal and counciler think that Trey started this.* Social services is now going to be involved.* I am waiting for a call or time when this is going to happen.When I was at work the father came in at daycare and I was freaked out.* He was very understanding and glad that Trey was able to talk about it.* He said which ticked me off was he wishes social service wouldn't have been called. * WTF well I explained to him that being a teacher we are trained and this is the route that I have to take.* So we will see what will come of this.I wish I could access my journal for when I had that incident happen with my neice and my son when she had my son in the closet... playing "Doggie"* I was so upset then too.* Social services was called out too on this instance and they said it was all innocent.* Well now you wonder is my kid scarred now for life.* I though so then and now I am freaking.* I told my boss that parenting is so hard not to through poopo like this into the mixture.I have reassured Trey over and over how proud of him I am that he told me and that it is not his fault.* I tell my kids that their body is theirs and it is a temple from God and that no one is to touch your temple.* What more can I do?* What would you do?