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I'm so disappointed in Austin.

I got a call yesterday from Austin's teacher. Mrs K was SO upset with Austin. He cheated on his math test, screamed at another student, defy's her instruction, and consistantly has a horrible attitude.

I talked to Austin yesterday when he got home from school, and all he could do was cry. He knew he was grounded, and that the computer, playstation, and television are gone for atleast a week. He says he doesn't know why he does this, or acts like this. He just says that he knows he's bad.

Mrs K did comment on how smart, and likeable he is. But these actions are uncalled for.

I have a meeting today afterschool with Mrs K and the guidence counselor with Austin.

Hopefully I can get some advice, as I don't know what to do or why he's doing this. I gre up an only child, and I know I didn't act like this. I gave Austin the chance to tell me if he was mad at me, or his Dad, and he wasnt mad at either of us.

My Aunt thinks that he's maybe just now learning that there are consequences to his actions, and he's seeing what he can get away with. Part of me thinks that could be it, but I don't know.

I wondered it maybe part of it might be horomones?? He just turned 8 in July.
Although Matt hit puberty a little earlier than most (full goatee and all by 9th grade). His hair on his legs is turning more course, and less baby hair like. He is also getting some peachfuzz in his armpits (which he's constantly scratching).

Ugh.. I don't know. I was so upset with Austin yesterday, he really disappointed me.
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Aww, I feel bad for the both of you. I'm glad you're taking steps to see what can be done about your DS' behavior, shows what a great parent you are. Maybe he's getting picked on at school by some of the kids? Maybe the work is too hard or too easy for him and that's frustrating him? I don't know the answer, I only know I have a just-turned 8 year old also and so I feel for you. I hope you come away from the conference with some ideas on how to help your DS. ((hugs))
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i hope that you get some answers at your meeting. Let us know how it goes!!
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Duncan is ADHD/Bipolar II and for a while, they thought he was ODD (Oppositional Defiant Disorder). Have you had him evaluated? If not, maybe now would be a good time. ODD is hard to diagnose though, but 8 sounds right about the age they start exhibiting those behaviors. I mean, this is on the major end, if you can't get to the bottom of things.
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My sister cheated on tests at that age, because she thought it would make people like her. I am not saying that is what Austin is doing. Since he is having a hard time in school talking to the guidence counselor is a good idea. Perhaps he is just stressed out from all the changes in his life - ie your new work schedule and acting out because of it.

I hope your get to the bottom of this.
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He could be starting puberty, which would very difficult at his age. It would also make it hard for him to control his emotional outbursts. I wouldn't do anything until you have talked with his counselor and teacher. It may be that there is something triggering his outbursts, even if he doesn't recognize what it is.
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Originally Posted by Robyn View Post
My Aunt thinks that he's maybe just now learning that there are consequences to his actions, and he's seeing what he can get away with.
I think that could be it. He will grow out of it, don't worry.
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