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How can I teach my child with autism abstract concepts?

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Today at Daisies the girls were supposed to color a daisy based on the Daisy patches. Of course, my dd did not get the concept of coloring the petals different colors and the center blue. In her mind, flowers have yellow centers and the petals are all the same color. I know literal thinking is an autism thing and if I asked her why she did not copy the daisy patch, she would say "Daisies don't look like that." We run into this a lot with her. Everything must always be the way that it is supposed to be or it is wrong and wrong is upseting. Grass must always be green. Cows are not purple. Etc.

On the plus side, when she decides to learn something, she stops at nothing to learn it. Finally, she is applying this determination to math. I have been hoping for this break through.

How can I get through to her that sometimes flowers can have different colored petals in her imagination? She is very creative and she has an active imagination. It's just not like other kid's.

Fortunately, it looks like there is another kid in the troop on the spectrum. She gets along well with other kids on the spectrum. They just "click".
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Re: How can I teach my child with autism abstract concepts?

This is something I have absolutely no experience with.

The only thing that occured to me is are there any video's or DVD's that show plants and animals different colours? If you could find one (maybe an autism support group would know of one) then maybe she could look at the Daisy as a 'cartoon' daisy not a 'real' daisy.

I personally see her point of veiw I have never liked painting/colouring things that weren't 'right' the best I could do was to add a rainbow in the sky. Heck I remember doing a colouring competetion using a magnifying glass to make sure I wasn't going over the lines, I was 6 at the time I guess some things never change.

I hope you find some reason that she can understand for doing things "wrong" bc that must be incrediably frustrating for both of you.
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There is a part of me that thinks maybe the way she is is okay. So she only sees things as they really are. Maybe she will never fall into the traps I have in life.
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Exactly, Is there anyway you can convince here that "this" daisy is a special daisy just for Daisy girls?

I had the opposite problem with all 3 of my boys, but it was my problem not theirs, I wanted them to colour "properly" IE my way, so that everything was realistic, they on the other hand coloured things every other way but "properly". The amount of lip biting and teeth grinding that went on but they do know that cows aren't really purple so I guess it didn't do them any harm.

Oh yeah, and thanks to cartoons everything they drew came complete with weapons
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Todd Parr has great books about stuff like this, one of my favorite and I know I have mentioned this before so if you've read this in the past, sorry.

Todd Parr "It's okay to be different" http://www.toddparr.com/books/

The book has nothing to do with addressing why people or things are different, just that it's okay.
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I agree with Maree.
And while reading your post Lenora, I was thinking, "What's wrong with coloring things the "right" color". I feel it's a smart thing for a child to think.
Mind you I have no experience either with this, it's jmo.
Which one of your girls is Autistic? I must have missed something somewhere.
post #7 of 10
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Re: How can I teach my child with autism abstract concepts?

Kate has mild autism. Cara may be on the spectrum as well or ppd nos. She has good eye contact, which Kate did not before OT. I think mine are the only girls on the spectrum on the site.
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Can you show her real flowers that are different colors? I don't really see a problem with her focus on reality. It'd be more of a concern if she insisted than cows were purple at her age. Lots of children her age are very literal and don't enjoy creative outlets like you've described. I'm speaking as an eductor and as a parent. This particular behavior seems "typical". So in that regard I guess that is good news, right?
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Thanks, Abby. That makes me feel better.
post #10 of 10

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My son is just three and he takes things seriously and not imaginative. But still all kids are not same, some get matured before their peer group. So just relax dear!
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