Re: Inductions and C-Sections
I was not induced either time, but with my daughter, my water broke and I was not dilating, so they gave me pitocin, which I am convinced is Greek for "of the devil!"

I did have a c-section with Emily because she was stuck on my pelvic bone. As for the surgery itself, yes, I was scared, but I would have been scared to have a vaginal birth, too! When I was in labor (17.5 hours), my epidural quit working, so I had to get a big boost to it before the c-section. The pushing and pulling sensations I felt were kind of strange, but not painful. I had been in labor so long, though, I was exhausted and just ready to see Emily. After that c-section, I did not get up and get moving like I should have (they left my epidural in for two days and then I was told to take it super easy for about a week), and my recovery from that c-section was tough and long.
With Travis, my c-section was scheduled, and it was a different experience. I had a spinal instead of an epidural, and it worked quickly and much more effectively. After I had him, I asked to be removed from the pain medicine drip as soon as I could, and I started taking pain meds by mouth when I needed them, which was not very often. I also asked to be released from the hospital early, which my doctor allowed, and I was up and moving a lot sooner and doing a lot more than I had with my first c-section, and my recovery was so much easier and quicker.
In both cases the anesthesiologist was great, and the nurse anesthesist (who sat right at my head next to my husband) both times was so kind and attentive and fabulous.
No one that I know WANTS a c-section, but they are often necessary. It's not the end of the world, and it's not traumatic. There, at least for me, was no big let down in not being able to deliver vaginally. All I wanted was to have a baby, and how they got my two out didn't really matter to me as long as they got here healthy.