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post #1 of 7
4/10/02 at 8:47pm
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talking about having children? ANd first started talking about TTC??



For us, believe it or not, we started talking about children together the first week we were going out. I was telling Peter and MY house I was designing in Home Interiors. And that is was in Canada...and how it looked...and by the end of the night MY house became...OUR house...OUR kids....OUR life. I even asked him when he dropped me off...."How did MY become Ours?" And he said "I don't know...I guess it's just meant to be."

We started talking about when to have children off on on while we dated.

We started about TTC around September 1999 (when we stopped using protection).

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How about you??
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post #2 of 7
4/10/02 at 10:59pm
Jay and I were the same way. We started talking about children and how many we each wanted. And realized that we had a lot in common for goals. This was when we were friends, a week before we started dating. We started talking about TTCing in April the month before we were married and decided to go off the pill in April and have been trying ever since.
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post #3 of 7
4/15/02 at 3:31pm
That's a tough question, because I went off bc in Aug. 1998 due to a health problem and never went back on. I had a miscarriage in Aug. 2001 and we officially started TTC immediately. So it's either about 8 months or 4 years, depending on how you look at it. Either way, it seems like forever.
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post #4 of 7
4/15/02 at 9:33pm
We had been dating about 3 mnths when he asked if I had considered having any more children, I said no I had not. (Well you don't , do you, when you are single duh) He started hinting, not very subtlely that he would like a child, I hoped it would go away, it didn't, but I did figure I probably would after all if you have your rapist's child you pretty much have to have one by the guy you actually love and who loves you.

We moved in together with it still hovering in the background, then I had a cancer scare and couldn't even think about it for the next 2 yrs until we got the 'it looks ok, you can start trying now' from the Dr's. We had decided to try for a child after our wedding in November the boys had other ideas (pill or no pill LOL), our wedding became September and February they were here.

To tell you the truth I was really upset we got pg accidently so to speak (they were planned just not so early) I really, really wanted, even just once, to make love while trying to conceive a baby, that must be so special, and I regret I never had the chance to experience that feeling
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post #5 of 7
4/16/02 at 1:21am
Let's see we were talking about kids way back in 10th grade... and we started TTC in 1995 when we got back together, before we got married.
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post #6 of 7
4/16/02 at 3:44am
Gary and I started TTC when we got married. (8 years ago)
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post #7 of 7
4/16/02 at 12:34pm
We talked about kids after we started dating seriously the last time. We kind of batted names around and talked about how many we'd like to have.

Of course, the month after we got married, DH was wanting to start trying to have a baby. But I thought it was a little soon. Anyhow. We decided to try after we had been married about 4 months, and then we (or rather, I) decided that we needed a little more time. So, we finally really started trying after we'd been married about 8 months.
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