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So, I wanted to things more than anything before I gave birth; 1 was to have my baby put on my chest right after I gave birth and then 2 was to bf. Well, I didn't get 1 because I had a c-section and meconium but I was able to bf shortly after I was stitched up - yay! Everything seemed to be going really well, I was able to bf the whole time I was in the hospital and all the nurses were like, wow, I can't believe this is your first kid type of thing. So I was feeling really good. Ava lost the maximum amount of weight while she was in the hospital that she could loose without having to be kept in the hospital. She was born at 6 lbs and 5.6 oz and we brought her home weighing 5lbs 11oz. We had a Dr.'s appt the next day and then one 2 days later to make sure she was on the right track as far as gaining weight.

Shortly after I got home I was having HORRIBLE latch pains and bleeding, cracked nipples - it was the worst! I had a lactation consultant come out and help me which worked great, now my nipples are back to normal (thank God).

For Ava's 2 week check-up (when she should have been back to her birth weight) she was only 6lbs, she had 6 oz to gain before being up to her birth weight. I started to taking Fenugreek which made Ava wail in pain (I am off it now), it can cause bad, painful gas in some babies and started pumping, or trying to pump as often as I could to get my milk supply up. It was almost impossible to do because I would feed during a lot of the day every hour so I needed to give my breasts some rest before she got hungry again. Long story short she ended up getting back to her birth weight by 4 weeks of age. At that point my Dr. said that I needed to start supplementing with formula. So I have been bfing and then offering a bottle as soon as I am done. Ava is thriving now and I am so happy that I am doing the formula watching her gain weight and become more active. It was something that I spent weeks crying over though about having to give formula b/c I wanted to exclusively bf so bad!

Of course, all of this seems so funny to me b/c my boobs are HUGE I feel like I should be able to feed a small country!
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How are her poops when you bf? Are they seedy and yellow or green and slimy? It could be she wasn't nursing enough on one side to get the hind milk. That's where she'll get most of her fats from. What you could do is stay in bed all day with her one day and just have a nurse in. Do nothing but feed her all day long as long and often as she wants. Supplementing is going to bring your supply down because she's not nursing as often, so your body will think you don't need to make as much milk. Get up enough to fix yourself a bite to eat, or something to drink, and change her of course. BFing can be hard but it does get better, I promise!
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OH! One more thing. See if your LC will do a feeding weigh-in, where she weighs Ava before a feeding with a diaper on, then nurse her, then she's weighed again in the same diaper. That way you can get an idea of how much milk she's taking in at each feeding. Lucas was really slow to gain at first, but he was super jaundiced...more than the other kids. It took him right at 2 weeks to get back to his birth weight, and now he only gains about 1.5 lbs per month. Don't let the Dr into bullying you into something if you don't want to do it. Some can be SO mainstream and tell you to supplement without getting to the root of the problem first
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I breastfed Emily with almost no trouble at all, but with Travis it did not work out. That was so hard to accept. I know how you feel, but don't be too hard on yourself. Travis is every bit as healthy and bright as Emily, and he was only breastfed for about 5 weeks. Hang in there.
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I was in the same boat as Tammy. I was able to breastfeed really good in the hospital. I was able to breastfeed Logan for one solid week before things went downhill.

On a Sat. It seemed like Logan could not get anything out, he suckled for 2-3 mins then cry, go back to it and the same thing. I tried to pump to see if I could get anything and nothing.

We had some formula already at the house just in case so we gave him some and he sucked it down like it was nothing. The next day I woke up and my breast were so sore I could not lay Logan on my chest. I called the LC and she gave we a way to fix it, Logan was able to BF that day good, then come Mon. it was back to the same thing. Tues. I thought I would wake up and have them sore again, but they felt normal.

I cried for a good two or three days everytime I had to give him a bottle bc I wanted that bond so bad. When he got his first and second cold I cried and blamed myself bc in my mind he would have never got thoes colds if I would have stuck it out, not been selfish.

I sat down and talked to a LC about how I was feeling and she gave me a lot of comfort about things. I honestly don't know what I would have done w/o her.
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I didn't start producing bm until I week after Jerren's birth, it was horrible. I supplemented for a while but finally stopped and now my boobs won't stop leaking.
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