Re: People touching your baby?
I didn't mind people I knew touching my kids. We go to the same grocery store, have for years, so we know most of the people there, and we didn't mind if they touched the kids. We also eat at the same Mexican restaurant right around the corner from our house. We have been going there since Emily was a month old. By the time she was three or four months old, the waitresses would fight over who got to hold her while we ate our food. They would carry her around, take her all over the restaurant. It was fine with us. They did the same thing with Travis.
It's just those total strangers that wanted to pinch Em's cheeks (they were so yummy and pudgy!) or touch Travis's cute nose or whatever that made me cringe a little.