OK so long story short I have 3 half brothers. The oldest Jessie was adopted by my dad from his ex wifes previous marriage. My dad's ex wife is my moms best friend. I call her my auntie and am also really close to her. Well I didn't know I had brothers until I was 12 because apparently the Koreans frown upon divorces. ( I was told they were my cousins and I don't remember them to much since they were around when I was to young to remember)
Well once I found out they were my brothers I wanted to keep in touch with them their ages are 40 - 35 the oldest who of course is Jessie then James then Jan.
Well I met them all again within the years James when I was 14, Jan I have met him about 4 times, and Jessie who I see more then all of them.
Jessie and Jan are both super busy guys. Jessie travels the country all the time since he is in the secret services and Jan who is always in iraq.
James was in iraq but his vehicle got bombed and he came home because of hearning lose and back stuff.
James is the only one that is married and as kids, 4 in fact they are all boys, I have only seen his oldest kid when he was a baby and then last year I saw his 2nd oldest when they came down his my uncle to visit.
WELLL here is where I am pissed off. James and his family are coming down to Texas ( kileen ) and they are visiting his wife's family. ( no one in the fam. likes his wife because they say she is lazy) Well they said they might come down to San Antonio, but now they aren't. My dad was really really looking forward to it too. he was going to get them all tickets to fiesta texas which aren't cheap. well now they don't have the time to come down because they are spending all this time with her father. Which isn't fair at all. THey don't even want to make a short hour or so drive to San AN to see my dad so now MY dad is driving down to see them.
I just wish James would come down and see my father because my dad really tires to see him but James doesn't seem to give a poop. My brother doesn't seem to care to much about my dad at all which bothers me.
If my other busy brothers can make time so can James. That is why I tell people I don't consider James my brother since he is NEVER around. He just does what he wife wants him to do and that seems to be not seeing HIS family.
btw my dad works nights so going anywhere is a huge task on him. I just really wish James was more in my life and my dads life. annnd my aunt (my bro's mom) baby sits his 4 kids and she works 2 jobs and they just seem to use her, no thank you nothing! ugggg
ok thanks for reading. I feel a little better.
Well once I found out they were my brothers I wanted to keep in touch with them their ages are 40 - 35 the oldest who of course is Jessie then James then Jan.
Well I met them all again within the years James when I was 14, Jan I have met him about 4 times, and Jessie who I see more then all of them.
Jessie and Jan are both super busy guys. Jessie travels the country all the time since he is in the secret services and Jan who is always in iraq.
James was in iraq but his vehicle got bombed and he came home because of hearning lose and back stuff.
James is the only one that is married and as kids, 4 in fact they are all boys, I have only seen his oldest kid when he was a baby and then last year I saw his 2nd oldest when they came down his my uncle to visit.
WELLL here is where I am pissed off. James and his family are coming down to Texas ( kileen ) and they are visiting his wife's family. ( no one in the fam. likes his wife because they say she is lazy) Well they said they might come down to San Antonio, but now they aren't. My dad was really really looking forward to it too. he was going to get them all tickets to fiesta texas which aren't cheap. well now they don't have the time to come down because they are spending all this time with her father. Which isn't fair at all. THey don't even want to make a short hour or so drive to San AN to see my dad so now MY dad is driving down to see them.
I just wish James would come down and see my father because my dad really tires to see him but James doesn't seem to give a poop. My brother doesn't seem to care to much about my dad at all which bothers me.
If my other busy brothers can make time so can James. That is why I tell people I don't consider James my brother since he is NEVER around. He just does what he wife wants him to do and that seems to be not seeing HIS family.
btw my dad works nights so going anywhere is a huge task on him. I just really wish James was more in my life and my dads life. annnd my aunt (my bro's mom) baby sits his 4 kids and she works 2 jobs and they just seem to use her, no thank you nothing! ugggg
ok thanks for reading. I feel a little better.
and since smilies are being removed at random here, *hugs*
Yeah, I need to mind my own business, but I hate seeing our parents suffer.
