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Drew asked me for a condom

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Not for him, but for his BFF, Kaylee. She is starting HS this year and is convinced that IT will happen this year and wants to be prepared. Since He had to get it from his father or I, he had to ask for it. I have no problems giving him (or his friends) one. But I did point out that I'm available if she needs to talk. Told to Drew make sure to tell her that she needs to be in a long term (meaing a year or more) relationship before she even thinks about going all the way.

Drew informed me earlier this summer he is no longer a virgin. Glad he felt he could tell me (and yes, he used a condom(, but I still wish he had waited.

I'm not sure I'm ready for this!
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I'm glad he felt comfortable asking you. I don't know what the health Dept. rules are in TX, but in WV, they will give you all the condoms you could ever image using for free with your annual check up. When you talk to Kaylee, maybe you could mention that it would be a good idea or her to get a female exam and talk to her dr about birth control before starting a physical relationship with a guy.
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I am hoping she will talk to me since she feels "funny" talking to her mom (and she IS close to her mom, but it IS her mom). I would hate to see her make the same mistakes I made, doing it out of curiosity. Learned my lesson and waited almost 2 more years before trying again (with a guy I'd been dating for 18 months or so).

I already told Drew that I will be happy to get a box of condoms and put them on the top shelf in the batroom so they are available should he need them. He said he wasn't impressed and wished he had waited, but OH WELL! (his words). He has promised to come and talk to me when he is ready to try this again (we'll see). We have always been able to talk about this stuff and I'm sooooo glad! My friends used to talk to my mom and it looks like Drew's friends may come to me. I have no problem with that. I won't try to talk them out of it, but I WILL point out all the emotional and physical pitfalls and ALL the possible consequences. Then if they still want to go thru with it, I will happily hand them a condom. Ribbed? Extra lube? Maybe a nice pink one?
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that is when you bring out a "stash" with glow in the dark ones....flavored, ribbed.....and what ever other kinds there are out there, and ask them, which would you prefer
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oh goodness, I am NOT looking forward to this when Jerren gets older.

It is awesome that he talked to you though, I never spoke to my parents about what I did.
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Glad he felt comfortable enough to ask you. I'm very open when it comes to talking about sex with my kids. They already know where the condom stash is here although I hope they choose to wait.
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Yeah, Drew knows where Rick keeps them. Inf act, he told me that Rick had moved them and darned if he wasn't right! We've always been able to talk about sex, the good and the bad. We're VERY open about this and I'm glad my mom was the same way. I know I didn't talk to her as much as I probably should have, but it was always nice to know I COULD, no matter the subject matter. I find it hard to believe in this day and age that some parents still don't talk to their kids about this stuff. I realize it can be tough, but to NOT talk to them considering what is out there? Can't even fathom that.
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wow Brenda.. i wish you were my friends mom!! LOL

Thats awesome that you guys can talk about that and he can actually tell you those things.. but ummmmm.. seriously.. WHEN did Drew turn 14???????? Wasn't he like 10 just the other day???
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Honey, he just turned 15 on the 12th? And I found out he's mpt a virgin anymore. Really didn't want to know that, either.
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