Re: Sleep problems
I spoke to my doctor about it. She doesn't think I need to do a sleep study. My problem is simply falling asleep. Once I am asleep, I rarely wake up. When I am stressed (REALLY stressed), I find that I simply cannot fall asleep. It normally takes me anywhere from 30 minutes to an hour to fall asleep, and I've been that way my whole life. My problem seems to be that my brain just refuses to shut down. I've gotten to the point where I don't read in bed or watch TV. I do nothing in bed but sleep (except maybe have private time with Rick! :wink: )
It doesn't happen too often and I never had a problem with it until recent years. When we first started having marital problems it started up again and got worse with this move. Now that we are trying to work things out and the worst of the move is behind us, I am finding that it is much easier to fall asleep because my brain is ready to shut down at bedtime and I don't have a million and one things floating thru my head while trying to fall asleep. I'm also finding that as I move toward some type of resolution with Rick, things get better, too. Mine seems to be totally stress related, which my doctor says is pretty normal. She has suggested that I can take my lorazepam to help me relax if things get really bad. In the past few months, I've only done that 2 times when it got to the point where I had barely slept in days. I hate taking pills, so I did some research online and starting trying the things they suggested, like not reading in bed or watching TV. Basically to make the bedroom a place where I only sleep. Keeping our bedroom clutter free helps too by making it a more realxing space. It doesn't always works, but it helps alot.