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My son is almost 9 and refuses to tie his shoes!

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It is such a point of frustration for me. Zach is almost 9 years old and claims to not be able to tie his shoes. I KNOW that he knows the process and some days has no problems at all but MOST days he sits for a ridiculous period of time whining and complaining that he can't do it. His dad bought him new shoes with double laces this past weekend and the fight to get him to tie them this morning was unreal. I made him hold the laces in his hand and tried to talk him through the steps ... he'd get to the part where he had one loop in his hand and had to wrap the other lace under and through ... his hands would go limp, he'd drop the laces, and say "SEE I can't do it!". Grrrrr!!!!
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Re: My son is almost 9 and refuses to tie his shoes!

Argh! I feel your frustration. It doesn't sound so much like he can't as he doesn't want to. I have no good solutions for really stubborn kids.
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Jimmy will be 8 in one month and still won't tie his either. Knows how too, but doesn't seem to have the strength in his hands to get them tight. I've been trying to find exercise to help with this, I'll keep you posted...
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Re: My son is almost 9 and refuses to tie his shoes!

Zach doesn't quite have it down ... Like Karen's son, he doesn't seem to have the coordination or strength to tie them well but he definitely knows how to do it. It's the stubborness and refusal to even try most days that drives me insane.
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Drew is 15 and still has trouble with it. It has to do with his Dysgraphia, which is common with ADD/ADHD. Plus, he has diminished strength in both hands (60% in the right and 75% in the left). Makes it difficult, but not impossible. For years I got around it by only buying him sneakers with velcro. It just wasn't worth the fight.
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