Well Trey has been diagnosed with ADHD. Jannie, how did you come to that concluesion? Glad you asked...
Trey got busted with inappropriate touching and the principal of my kids school (that closed now) tried expelling him. Now what he did was tell another boy to unbutton his top (because the girls like it he told him) and the had his arm on the boys crotch (outside his pants) This was a Friday with 3 days left of school.
Monday morning I went back to school and told the principal that if they wanted to expel him they would need to give a written notice and and have a hearing and with 3 days of school there isn't enough time. She said I dont care what it is called he cant come back. so suspended.
So that Friday the principal call the police lesion at the public school and said he was expelled and they needed to interview us. I told her it was changed to a suspension and she said good because he would not be allowed in the public school if he was expelled.
On this same Friday, the other teachers broke confidence and told the other mom and child that he is expelled and that he had been peeking in on other boys in the bathroom (with others) and talking that butt is matter in class. ( matter was the subject.)
Met with the officer and reviewed the case.
We got a councilor that specializes in this and we had all the teachers fill out paper work and the parent fill it out and he has come to the conclusion that he is adhd with impulsive tendencies. We now have been recommended to a psychologist and looking into medication for him.
Mean time we are seeing the councilor and dealing with this...
Today we are going to court, for the police department suggesting sexual abuse. I am so broken up and need to get through this day, and I know it wont be tearless.
Trey got busted with inappropriate touching and the principal of my kids school (that closed now) tried expelling him. Now what he did was tell another boy to unbutton his top (because the girls like it he told him) and the had his arm on the boys crotch (outside his pants) This was a Friday with 3 days left of school.
Monday morning I went back to school and told the principal that if they wanted to expel him they would need to give a written notice and and have a hearing and with 3 days of school there isn't enough time. She said I dont care what it is called he cant come back. so suspended.
So that Friday the principal call the police lesion at the public school and said he was expelled and they needed to interview us. I told her it was changed to a suspension and she said good because he would not be allowed in the public school if he was expelled.
On this same Friday, the other teachers broke confidence and told the other mom and child that he is expelled and that he had been peeking in on other boys in the bathroom (with others) and talking that butt is matter in class. ( matter was the subject.)
Met with the officer and reviewed the case.
We got a councilor that specializes in this and we had all the teachers fill out paper work and the parent fill it out and he has come to the conclusion that he is adhd with impulsive tendencies. We now have been recommended to a psychologist and looking into medication for him.
Mean time we are seeing the councilor and dealing with this...
Today we are going to court, for the police department suggesting sexual abuse. I am so broken up and need to get through this day, and I know it wont be tearless.
I wish that I lived closer so I could give you lots of support and hugs IRL. If you need to talk we are always here. 
How is Trey doing with all of this? How are YOU? I hope you have a good support system there sweetie. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
