Well as a bio mom this has been the toughest area of my life. I must say though the last year has been uneventful as far as dealing with ex( well ex boyfriend). I don't talk to step mom because I never get the chance. I have grown up alot the last few years, I'm 22 and my daughter is almost 8. Yep, young. I have realised that her step mom and even her family love my daughter. They never make her feel like an outsider. I know if they did my daughter would tell me. So, I'm lucky that all these people love my daughter! I do have some probs with step but overall she is good to her. I don't see why more moms can't understand this. I know it might seem simple but it took me almost 3 years to understand it. A child cannot have to much love. When I did make this discovery all negative feelings left me. I was not jealous any longer. I know I'm a good mom and I don't cause her any grief about who said what and all that. I could go on and on but let me say what someday your bio mom will say hopefully, Thank you for accepting my child.
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4/4/01 at 3:23pm