Thank You!! 
It is for my son's
1st birthday and we will be out of town for it. My parents are coaches of a Jr. Olympic team and will be attending the Jr. Olympics with their team. Since the Jr. Olympics fall on my sons birthday and my DH will be deployed at the time (military) my parents asked us to join them. I had ask my Dad if we could have alittle cake and he didnt want to leave his team out so he suggested having a little party. The kids age average 11-12 and there are about 20 of them. Sounds like alot to me!! But I can understand how he didnt want to leave them out and Cole and I dont have any family or friends around I thought it was ok.
The thing is that I have never been to a kid's party before only family...I have no idea what they do, what order things happen in, etc!!
So all the advice is very much appreciated! 