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IF one of your in-laws

post #1 of 20
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needs to be taken car of when they are older .. will you do it?
post #2 of 20
haven't run into this yet. Don't have any onlaw's. I wouldn't think I would beruge any one needing help unless they hurt me or my family so badly...and then I would at least help them find a home. I really can't say right now though. :shrug:
post #3 of 20
yep sure would...my inlaws are great...it's MY mom that would drive me
post #4 of 20
I doubt they would want us to do so. Mike's sister lives next door to them.
post #5 of 20
That is HIGHLY doubtful. Not just because of ME but because I do not think that it would even be considered by dh. Luckily, he has 2 other brothers that would most likely do it if it was needed.
post #6 of 20
No, we don't talk to them and they hate me. Hope they have a plan!
post #7 of 20
Yep, in a heartbeat! I love them like they were my own parents!
post #8 of 20
I love my FIL,but he is a perv, even in his old age, so I dont know
post #9 of 20
Yes. MIL has taken care of me threw all my illnesses and surgeries. We would be the ones to take care of either of them/
post #10 of 20
That is so hard to say, DH's mother has and continues to hurt us all so badly I really don't know if we would be there to take care of her or not.
post #11 of 20
Yes we would but probably wouldn't have to because his older sisters would be helping out as well.
post #12 of 20
Mmmm... If I HAD to... Mmmmm... I'd still have a problem with it.

Dan's the youngest of 6... so thankfully this won't be an issue for us. At least I hope not. (Knock on wood!!)
post #13 of 20
Probably not. I don't think they would want us to. But if they do I'm sure we will.
post #14 of 20
I don't think they want our help. I think they would make arrangments for themselves.
post #15 of 20
If we had to they have been so generous with us that I would.
post #16 of 20
As as MIL drives me, I still would do it, b/c I would want DH to do the same for my mom, if the need should arise.
post #17 of 20
I don't know, it would depend on our financial situation, and how big our home was.
post #18 of 20
It would completely depend on where we were in our life and if we had room to take them in.
post #19 of 20
Yes I think I would - especially because I have hadthe discussion with DH about taking care of my mom, it just wouldnt be right not to for his family...

may break up the marriage though ... I dont know how well that would work
post #20 of 20
So long as I did not have them both! They would to much and I would go a little

I am sure it will be Court's older sister though because she is the one that is always "in charge" and since Court is the boy and the baby they don't let him do much!
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