Horrible Incident At The Inlaws

Last night we went to my MIL and FIL's for my FIL's birthday.
We were all having a good time and the kids were playing good. Well my brother in law who is a complete a hole, was telling Austin about the Boogey man under his bed that he is going to eat him, etc. Rich told Scott nicely to stop it because with Scott saying that to him in the past it has given him nightmares. Like 2 minutes after Rich told him to not say that, he said again to Austin that the boogie man is going to come from under his bed and eat his feet. Rich told him again, stop saying that scott he thinks you are serious, and he told scott to use his head and think about what he was saying to Austin. Fine, that was it. They all still played nice and Scott went upstairs. DIdnt care where he went. Rich goes upstairs to get a pop, and he comes downstairs, so MAD and says, were out of here, were leaving. Everyone wondered what happened. Well turns our Scott called out house, and left a message on our answering machine that he didnt appreciate being dis-repected in his house, which it isnt its his parents house and he is a loser who is 35 with no job and livign with mommy and daddy. Anyway, he said on the machine that Rich is lucky they are brothers or he would have to slap him around, etc.
Well when rich went to get his drink, scott got in his face and told him he called our house and left a message and he was bumping into Rich and tell him he was going to F him up and nobody disrespects him.
When Rich came down and told us we were leaving and what happend, little Scott came flying down the stairs and started argueing with Rich again about it, the guys started yelling. Richs mom was trying to get them to stop. Scott cant figure out that when we tell him to stop something with OUR child that it is giving him nightmares, he thinks its all a joke. He says Austin knows he is joking, etc, etc. Well i stared boiling inside, because this butt hole isnt up with kid in the middle of the night when he is screaming that there are people under his bed.
Out of know where i flew off the couch and let his brother have it. No i didnt hit him, I lit into him like a rolling fire!!! I screamed Your not the one who is F ing up with him in the middle of the night and you think this is a big joke! And honestly i cant remember what i all said to him. He ended up calling me a B. He says to Rich no wonder you and your wife get along so well. I assume he said that because Rich and i were both yelling.

Then he says yeah, i like how you guys swear in front of your kids. I told him, yeah like you are a great role model for them.
Then he tells me to get a job, so i yelled to him get a job you f in loser and move out!!
Then everyone went upstairs. I was so horrified about what happend i was shaking and crying. That is not like me to act that way. My SIL stayed downstairs and comforted me.
When we went upstairs we just got our coats on and left.
When we got home we listened to the precious message from his brother. Rich then called his parents house to talk to his mom and scott answered and told him mom was busy and then started threatening him again. and then he hung up on rich. Rich called back and his mom answered. They were told as long as Scott lives at that house, our kids will not be going over there. Well Richs mom got all upset about that and says we are punishing her because of Scott. That is not it at all, they are wonderful grandparents, but our children will not be around that man ever again. They now have no Uncle Scott. IF she is mad at anyone it should be scott and she should thank him for not having her grandchildren at her house anymore with him around.
As far as christmas goes, they will have to come here if they want to see the kids, we will not go to their house if scott is there.
And they were told if scott threatens Rich again or touches him or comes on our property, the police will be called and we have the tape from the answering machine to prove his threats. We have no problem putting him in jail.
And the thing that makes me and Rich so angry is we know nothing will be done about it. Sure they may have argued with scott but he will be still living there. And while the arguing was going on, they never stepped in. My MIL was telling the guys to stop but that was about it. Nothinng else
Rich was so upset about all this he was actually crying last night, he hasnt cried since Brandon died so i know he was hurt deeply, because he feels like his parents think he is the bad guy. But I stand behind him 100%.
What would you do if you had a relative that kept saying things to your kids like they are a stupid kid and telling them that the boogie man was going to get them?

He truly is Dawn, they give him spending money, she cooks, cleans for him, and they let him get away with all this stuff.
In the summer Scott got into a fight at the bar here in town and really messed up this guy, sliced his head open, etc. And Rich was called to it with the fire dept to help treat the guy for his injuries. Scott said to Rich last night he was going to F him up like he did to the guy at the bar. That was a low blow because Rich knew what he did to the guy. The guy was in the hospital for a week!
Rich should have just called the cops on him last night, Scott has a great track record with them now.

Rich went over there a little bit ago to get his snowmobile out of his parents yard. We dont trust it there with Scott at the house. We wouldnt put it past him to do something to it.
I told Rich if scott approaches you at all, walk away and if he starts his crap again, to call the cops.

yep he's back! no one was home.

Thank you so much for all your support girls! It means alot. It helps us know that we made the right decision. The only thing i regret is yelling the way i did, that is so not me! I just lost control.
Rich is going over there to get the kids Christmas gifts so i can wrap them. I was supposed to do it over there but i dont want to be around scott at all.

I talked to my MIL yesturday for a couple of minutes to figure out what time for christmas day. My SIL is going to have us all over at her house, minus scott. But get this my MIL said she is going to be busy cooking for dinner at SIL's so we cant get together until 2:30, well we have to leave by 3:30 to my moms for dinner. So she said we can all meet at 1:30. So the boys will get to spend a hole 2 hours with grandma and grandpa on christmas day. Rich is so fed up with everything he has been saying they can all shove it and we are not going anywhere. I told him whatever decision he choses, I will stand behind him.
Why does everything have to be so complicated

Oh and Rich stopped by there yesturday afternoon to pick up the gifts and his mom was super quiet with him. He said he tried to make conversation with her but she wouldnt really talk to him. So he asked her what her problem was and she said, Im just tired i just woke up, considering this was at 1pm
When i talked to her she wasnt her happy self, she was quiet and to the point with me. My SIL said when she has talked to her on the phone, she is the same with her, just very sad and upset.
I was my usual happy self when i called, and Scott answered. So i said, Hi Scott is Mom there, he just said yep and that was it! Nothing like making someone more mad by being nice to them!!