Ok-Don't dare tell him this, but I'm ready to
DH!
We've been going back and forth on the discussion about having another baby. For the longest time I said "No-absolutely not. Not right now. We can't afford it. Jonathan's too young. I'm not ready to be sick again. His job's not stable, etc. etc. etc." And he really wanted to have another one. Well, then I get to the point where I'd at least like to discuss it, and he's talking about how we should wait until we decide if we're moving or not, and we need to make sure we have the proper medical coverage, etc. Logical concerns, but there really hasnt't been anything definite decided or even OFFERED. So, I don't know what the big deal is. If he's waiting around on those people, then there's no way we can afford to go there. And we won't be having a child for another two years at least. I would like to have my children when I'm young enough to enjoy them!
So, anyhow. I went for my doctor appointment, and he said he thought it was a good idea for me to get my pills refilled. So, I did. They gave me 2 months worth of samples, and a new prescription. Well, DH was cleaning the living room, and picked up all the stuff on top of the TV and chunked it.
Well, my scrip was in there and he tossed it. When I told him it was in there, he kind of looked on top of the garbage can to see if he could see it and then kind of shrugged like "oh well".
Well, then he went off to DE for the week, and yesterday during church, he's talking about his visit with his family and he says, "Oh, yeah... Aunt Jackie said to give you a message." I asked him what is was, and he said "She said 'it's time'." I asked him what that was supposed to mean. He said she said we didnt' want to do what Grandma did and wait 7 years betweem all her kids. Well, DUH! So, I ask him why did he think I started that conversation last week before I went to the doctor, and he's like "What conversation?"
Hello!!!! First of all, I didn't want to be having this conversation in the church lobby. Second... Does he think I still want to wait? Am I giving him the wrong signs? Third... QUIT being so stinking wishy washy!!!! One minute he says he wants another child and the next minute he says we should wait. To use one of his lines... If we wait until we can afford it, we'll never have another one. I am very frustrated with this. He doesn't want to actively try, but if I got pregnant and we weren't trying, he wouldn't be upset and we'd make it work.
Excuse me, because I just feel the need to
him!
DH!We've been going back and forth on the discussion about having another baby. For the longest time I said "No-absolutely not. Not right now. We can't afford it. Jonathan's too young. I'm not ready to be sick again. His job's not stable, etc. etc. etc." And he really wanted to have another one. Well, then I get to the point where I'd at least like to discuss it, and he's talking about how we should wait until we decide if we're moving or not, and we need to make sure we have the proper medical coverage, etc. Logical concerns, but there really hasnt't been anything definite decided or even OFFERED. So, I don't know what the big deal is. If he's waiting around on those people, then there's no way we can afford to go there. And we won't be having a child for another two years at least. I would like to have my children when I'm young enough to enjoy them!
So, anyhow. I went for my doctor appointment, and he said he thought it was a good idea for me to get my pills refilled. So, I did. They gave me 2 months worth of samples, and a new prescription. Well, DH was cleaning the living room, and picked up all the stuff on top of the TV and chunked it.
Well, my scrip was in there and he tossed it. When I told him it was in there, he kind of looked on top of the garbage can to see if he could see it and then kind of shrugged like "oh well".
Well, then he went off to DE for the week, and yesterday during church, he's talking about his visit with his family and he says, "Oh, yeah... Aunt Jackie said to give you a message." I asked him what is was, and he said "She said 'it's time'." I asked him what that was supposed to mean. He said she said we didnt' want to do what Grandma did and wait 7 years betweem all her kids. Well, DUH! So, I ask him why did he think I started that conversation last week before I went to the doctor, and he's like "What conversation?"
Hello!!!! First of all, I didn't want to be having this conversation in the church lobby. Second... Does he think I still want to wait? Am I giving him the wrong signs? Third... QUIT being so stinking wishy washy!!!! One minute he says he wants another child and the next minute he says we should wait. To use one of his lines... If we wait until we can afford it, we'll never have another one. I am very frustrated with this. He doesn't want to actively try, but if I got pregnant and we weren't trying, he wouldn't be upset and we'd make it work.Excuse me, because I just feel the need to
him!






for you, Dina!