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Have you ever not been sure?

post #1 of 6
6/30/04 at 3:09am
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Have you ever wondered if this was what you wanted? For some reason today I have been thinking about the fact that I may not what to have a baby. I'm not sure if I want to have a child anymore or if I want to be pregnant. Arnold, my husband, has been wonderful but he isn't sure either. I don't know what I want. Does this happen all the time?? Or to any one else??

Mir
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post #2 of 6
6/30/04 at 3:13am
I never had any doubts.
Hopefully you and your husband can decide what is best for the two of you. No matter what the decision is, as long as you know in your heart that it's what you want, then everything else will work itself out. My advice is to listen to what your heart tells you to do.
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post #3 of 6
6/30/04 at 12:36pm
Lets just put it this way, when we started to TTC our DD we only tried one month and me and my husband decided maybe we should wait another 6 months to a year before we tired again. I told my DH we had to wait and see what happend this month before we could say ya lets not try for another 6 months. It wasn't that we didn't want children we just werent' sure if it was the right time yet. But during that one month of trying God made that decision for us. I was PG already, so we had no choice. And it's natural to worry a little. Being a parent is a big responsibility so it's kind of scary at first but really it's worth it! Good luck and don't beat you self up because you have doubts.
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post #4 of 6
6/30/04 at 2:34pm
Lupe said it beautifully. I think it is only natural to have doubts. It's a major change in your life. Good luck to you on whatever you and your dh decide.
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post #5 of 6
6/30/04 at 2:40pm
I think it's natural as well...I still have doubts but of course this pregnancy was unplanned. Although, I'm still so excited!
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post #6 of 6
6/30/04 at 7:14pm
I wonder daily. Most days I want another child really bad and right now, but then the next day I think, well if I had another child I couldn't do this or that, or I would have to wait to do this or that. And then I start to worry about the bills we have and that we will never be able to afford to have another child, once I get pregnant though, I never look back and worry about that kind of stuff though.
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