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#1 of 1 Old 11-27-2010, 03:53 PM - Thead Starter
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Hi all. I have been trolling around boards and looking for some advice on my relationship. My girlfriend and I have talking about getting married but I have some reservations. Primarily about our sex life. She has always been a nympho since her teen years. She was previously married for several years and had a very active sex life, when she and I met we had a very active sex life. We would make love for literally hours, up to five or six hours a night, until we couldn’t move. For the last several months, things have gone to a slow crawl, from 4 or 5 times a week, to once or twice if I am lucky. I have talked to her about it, but she just says that she is tired, so I accept that, but ****, you would think the girl would get some rest in a couple of months period of time. My concern is that I do not want to marry into a relationship that lacks sex and intimacy. I was married to a woman for 10 years, and our relationship was great, except the relationship lacked intimacy, plenty of sex, just no passion. I don’t want to find myself in that position again without the sex or intimacy. I just want to find out what is going on and what can I do to fix it.

Sometimes I feel as though I am being sold a bill of goods. Her X husband treated her like crap and provided minimally for her and her family. I have always treated her very well and worked very hard to make sure she and her kids have what they want and need, but I am the one that gets no booty. Hmmm, makes me feel kind of stupid. Take on responsibility that isn’t rightfully mine, not to be a hero, but because I care about her, yet I get no booty. Maybe I should just be a tool, keep my money, go out and party and stay out all weekend, then she will feel like doing me. I don’t know, I sure would like to have a healthy sex life again, because this is getting very old. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. 

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