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DianaL 01-11-2005 11:22 PM

okay since were on the subject about BJs, i would like to kinda get a picture on where i stand with this whole thing..

how long does it take ur DH to explode or whatever..


maybe im not doing it the right way, thats probarly explains why im taking so long, I think i might have to watch a porno or something but whats the best way on giving one?

sorry if this isnt the most exciting topic to talk about just he is the first and only person ive ever done this too and im 27!!! so i feel like a lil i want to be a Dirty DIANA

Seabeacon 01-18-2005 01:19 AM

Okay, I'll bite. (No pun intended, lol). Hubby takes mere minutes but that's just how he is.

Not sure about how to give advice on that. Hmmm, gotta think on that one.

Jannie 01-18-2005 01:44 AM

tip for a quick out. have him sit on the couch and you kneel in fromt of him and do it there. something about the rubbing makes it go quick! So I am told it went pretty quick the other night. oh and go faster dont slow down or it slows down!

Just trying to help a sister out! KWIM!

DianaL 01-18-2005 02:38 AM

i wonder if guys get off on it better when their sitting down or laying down? well guess what?! i finally tasted his .. for the first time! never have i ever had that happen to me before. got to say it was pretty salty and

AndreaB 01-18-2005 03:09 AM

i agree with you on that one!!

it takes my dh forever.... so long that i rarely finish.. i think he holds on foreve cuz he likes it so much...

i should also note that it has been literally years since i've gone there

AliMichelle 01-18-2005 07:34 AM

OMG you guys are too funny
My advice is to use your mouth, use your hand onhis shaft and use your other hand to mind the stepchildren. Also kneeling in front of him is a huge turn and when I combine all of those tips Nate can't resist. Also, dont stop stroking when he is about to come, keep going until he tells you to stop Good luck. You get used to the taste btw, its an acquired taste, like beer for some people

des02 01-18-2005 01:41 PM

I agree with Ali, the position and hand movements are what count. And if you do it right when he does cum for me anyways its so far back all I do is swallow and I don't even taste anything

Spaggie 01-18-2005 04:31 PM

Well, I DON'T SWALLOW! I did that once for my exDH and threw up all over him!

I'm not sure I even have a technique. I just do what I know Rick likes until my jaws get tired, then I stop and we go on to other things.

Seabeacon 01-18-2005 11:27 PM

DianaL 01-19-2005 05:36 AM

i will keep those steps on mind. it usually takes me about 45mins for him to explode. dont think i can handle the swallowing thing, though

AliMichelle 01-19-2005 09:13 AM

Whoa 45 minutes?? He needs some more stimulation. Work it girl and he wont be able to hold back!!

DianaL 01-19-2005 09:16 AM

feels like 45mins, next time ill look at the clock, i know, i need to practice or something so i can be pro by April 16th.

des02 01-19-2005 01:29 PM

I also forgot to add that I read there is a spot on the sack that feels good when your down there if you rub it. My DH also likes me to play or suck (that dosen't happen to often) with them while down there. Good luck.

AliMichelle 01-19-2005 08:46 PM

Ahh yes, sucking on the stepkids, that is always popular. Not everyone will do it though, just do what you are comfortable with I am sure no matter what you do your hubby to be will appreciate it!

PICKME4BB 01-19-2005 09:51 PM

I agree with all the comments here. Stoke it girls and also to help the gagging when going deep try holding your breath a little and breath when coming up that really helps me to control the deep stuff.

It's just like taking medication that you don't like if you hold your nose you don't taste it. Same concept of holding the breath. Also some men like anal stimulation not finger just when rubbing the step children turn your hand side ways and rub from the top of the sak to the tailbone.

Stink_Momma 01-19-2005 09:56 PM

I hate giving them. So I usually alternate between that and a hand job when it takes to long. And I refuse to let him "explode" in my mouth. Try taking your left hand and going down the shaft and holding the skin taught right about his balls while you have him in your mouth. DH loves this. Also, do it with your mouth tighter around the head area. There is also a spot that you can rub right below his balls and before his booty hole that if you rub in the same direction you are mouthing, it will make it go faster. It is kind of like the male g spot.

Becky 01-20-2005 04:11 PM

You guys crack me up I hated it with Ed. No matter what I did he could hold out forever!! It was s elfish thing though. I would tell him if he wou;dn;t make it take so long maybe he would have gotten them more.

DianaL 01-20-2005 09:40 PM

EvaK 01-20-2005 11:37 PM

I am with you on that one, Becky. I hate it when DH takes too long, no matter what we do. It just makes me numb, and it gets uncomfortable, may it be a BJ or the old fashion thing. I think that's why I am so asexual right now, because I know I am in for a tireding time. It it would be more reasonable, I might even be interested.
Oh well, since DH can't even keep his eyes open past 8 I just sneak out and go to be without him. Kinda sad, though.

EvaK 01-20-2005 11:38 PM

That should have been go to BED without him LOL

LuAnn 01-22-2005 01:02 PM

I have the world's biggest gag reflex.

The one time I have been able to last long enough myself to get him to go I had to finish w/the hands because it tasted

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