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#1 of 11 Old 06-12-2004, 11:33 PM - Thead Starter
 
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Well as I stated in a reply I am not having sex these days... and striving to wait until I am married. But I just wondered if anyone had any suggestions how to keep this promise? I have fooled around some with a guy I was dating but I was able to stop it before it got any further but I am just wondering how I am going to keep myself from ever going further??? Any suggestions....
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Well maybe you can just not put yourself in a position where you will be tempted? Sex is sooo much better when you truly love someone and are truly commited as I am sure you know.
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That's a good suggestion, Meagan.

Diana, that's a toughie (sp?). Maybe just remind yourself however often you need to of what you're "holding out for". Good luck!
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Yeah Meagan, I agree there. The worst part is that after being active for the past few years not having any isn't always easy though I can say I have been non active since November so that says something.... I definately have to remind myself of what I am holding out for. I really want to be in love and sure of the future before I ever have sex again. Thanks guys!
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willpower, cold showers and toy action!
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lol..... that is for sure...
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Good Luck!
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Uhhhhhhh...lock it up & hide the key?
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I just try to put all my energy into something else. I am in for a loooong cold spell..been 2 months and I have 10 to go. I just try to keep busy.
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when you need to, put that energy into something else, like Meg said. Clean the house, wash the car.. take the kids to the park and play with them.. ok, well..play on a blanket with Devin and let Alexis play. Do something physical. Exercise. Jog. And eat chocolate. It has been proved that what a woman gets from chocolate is about the same as what we get from sex.
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LOL, have you ever seen Something About Mary?? I think the idea of helping yourself out before a date is a great idea
Good luck!! I admire your will power Diana!
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