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#1 of 12 Old 05-16-2004, 12:13 AM - Thead Starter
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I really do NOT want to put it in the pregnancy loss forum!
I am so fed up with feeling so useless and tired all the time.Bf and I hardly talk(except to argue) and I can barely sleep in the same bed with him since "that" happened. I will NOT and CANNOT let it happen again.I make him stay downstairs and watch tv until I fall asleep and it really is easier to be mad at him .
He changed his mind,and now will NOT have a vasectomy like he said he would. It makes me so mad! I had baby last year,3 months later break a bone,have surgery for that,(I have surgery again in 2 weeks to remove the steel plate in my shoulder), then have a miscarriage.My body can't take anymore!
I feel so stupid that this has happened.
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I'm sorry for all you've been through Tammy.
for BF!!!
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for your bf.....he needs to take responsibility for things too
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It makes me so mad.Last friday he DROPS me off at the emergency(well he did have to go home and look after Sarah),then complains about how they made me wait 3 and half hours in the emergency and how I wouldn't have had to sit there that long.,f he wouldve been with me.But then he goes on about how I haven't been doing anything around here lately.And I have been , just not as much as usual.And it seems like when ever I am sick,his back hurts!
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Oh my gosh!!! I would like to see him be a woman for a day. My goodness...your body has went thru so much within the year. I don't know how it feels to have a miscarriage, but I would think it would be scary and sad. He needs to take a pill!

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I am so sorry. I hope your BF changes his mind about the vasectomy... Maybe when he realizes you aren't "available", he might change his mind!
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I don't think he will change his mind!
In fact, the way I am feeling right now,that I hope he just leaves me altogether.
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to him.
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I'm so sorry, Tammy. You've had a rough year, now this.

 
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