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#1 of 10 Old 03-14-2006, 11:06 PM - Thead Starter
 
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Talked to my dad just now. He said he will be coming up next week, probaly Monday night to talk to me about something important. He said he wasn't going to tell me anything else until then cuz his " doctors appointment is on Monday and he'll know moree then." All he'd tell me is that there's been some probs with him recently but he doesn't want me to worry cuz it's really nothing serious right now. Not serious now? As worn and haggard as he sounded, and the fact he's making a trip up for the sole purpose of talking to me about "things" tells me it's nothing minor either. So when will it be serious? On Monday when he gets the mysterious "test results" he kept mentioning? You know, I really hate it he tries to protect me like this, cuz I know thats what he's doing. He doesn't want to worry or upset me, but hasn't he learned yet that when he does this, it only scares me more. The only time he acts like this is when it is something major. So now I'm scared to death and I've gotta wait a week to find out exactly why.... I swear I just wanna go down there and beat it out of him. I'd call my sister, but if I don't know yet, she's even more in the dark than I am. Monday night I'll be sitting on my phone. He'll have till 5:30 to call before I start calling him.



HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO WAIT A WEEK WITHOUT LOSING MY FREAKING MIND??????????????????????????
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Ok, and now I feel kinda cold - Erics hurting real bad right now. His gramma passed away last night. We all knew she wasn't gonna last long after his pap died back in Dec. He still hadn't fully recovered from losing his pap. Plus he's worried sick about his dad, who has completely lost with grief of losing both his parents so close together. I think thias may be part of why I am so freaked about my dad. Seeing Eric and his dad, it just reminds me that my dad isn't gonna be there forever either. Then he calls and tells me this. And I'm alone right now. Kids are sleeping, and eric went over to his parents to see and check on his dad. I can't wait till he gets home just so I can hug and hold him. And tell him a couple hundred times how much I love him.
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I'm so sorry for Eric's loss, Tammy.
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I am sorry for Eric's loss, Tammy. I hope your Dad is okay.
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I can't believe your dad would leave you in the dark like that. I'm sorry about Eric's loss.
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Well Milly, he's not trying to leave me in the dark. I know why he does this. He knows what an active imagination I can have, the horrible things I can think up. He knows that if he just lets my imagination worry me, no matter what it actually is, it won't seem quite as bad as what I was thinking. Therefor I usually end up feeling a littrle more relaxed and able to cope with the actual prob. If any of that makes sense. I guess it helps just cuz it keeps me from forgetting how grateful I should feel, when I know how much worse it could be. Keeps me grounded in a way.
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